Topic: Time to Move on??
ibelieve's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:35 AM
Hey guys, so I was with this guy for a terribly long time. it would have been almost 3 1/2 years this summer. But unfortuntly he passed away in April in 2007. I know its crazy but I still feel a part of him in my heart but ive meet a great guy. that i feel alright with, im just not sure if its the best thing to start dating again... or is it? i feel alright to start dating again im just not sure if my heart and my mind can handle it. but if a good guy and i start talking i dont want to let him pass me by. Help??

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IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:37 AM
Sorry for your loss.. It is time to move on.. You deserve to be happy and he would probably want you to be happy...

ZacharyRyan's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:38 AM
I would say just take your time with things...


Sorry to hear about your loss, I can't imagine.

Good luck.

mb_beaches's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:38 AM
I don't see why not. Just take your time.:wink:

ibelieve's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:38 AM

Sorry for your loss.. It is time to move on.. You deserve to be happy and he would probably want you to be happy...



yah. i just cant help thinking that things would be so different if he was here. its just hard. and this dating thing is new to me again.

ibelieve's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:39 AM
so i honestly dontknow how to go about meeting a new guy and\or starting a relationship

gracekelley's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:41 AM
This sounds like that P.S. I love you movie! But i'd say its time to move on. just remember the good times you had and your young and he will always be a chapter in your life but you have more chapters to make.

oldsage's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:42 AM
Dear, you are very young & will have a lot harder challenges, then a break up. Date when your ready, but guarantee life will go on & you will care about others. Don't buy the first car yu test drive & same for relationships. Talk to some of the ladies here, they are a fountain of knowledge, that might help.
Good Luck.flowerforyou flowerforyou

gracekelley's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:42 AM
Don't worry about how to make it happen just go with the flow and let it happen when your ready

msjkk2020's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:43 AM


Sorry for your loss.. It is time to move on.. You deserve to be happy and he would probably want you to be happy...



yah. i just cant help thinking that things would be so different if he was here. its just hard. and this dating thing is new to me again.


I am so sorry for your lose...however, time does heal all things. You have memories that are going to last you a lifetime, but in the meantime you still have a life to live. You are young and have no reason to spend the rest of your life alone. I can't even begin to imagine how hard this must be for you. I think it would be a comfort for you to meet another nice guy and start your life again...I'll pray for ya....Keep your chim up.:smile:

johncarl's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:43 AM
talk with the people here will help:smile:

msjkk2020's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:43 AM
CHIN even!!!laugh

captainfantastek's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:44 AM

Dear, you are very young & will have a lot harder challenges, then a break up. Date when your ready, but guarantee life will go on & you will care about others. Don't buy the first car yu test drive & same for relationships. Talk to some of the ladies here, they are a fountain of knowledge, that might help.
Good Luck.flowerforyou flowerforyou


What he said! I am sorry for your loss.

ibelieve's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:45 AM
Thanks everyone. i did hang out with a pretty amazing guy last night. and i wasnt sure how can tell the difference between lust and liking someone. its been a while since i was in the dating scene so im not sure what exaclty im feeling, but i know that he was the last thing on my mind last night, and my first thought this morning. ha i know he will read this. but who cares. cant hide your feelings right?

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:53 AM
i dunno wat i would do if a girlfriend died on me
frown

passenger 57 movie still scares me with main character's story

VEGASFUN101's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:53 AM
I know how you feel ...I am sorry for your loss.
kim