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Topic: Being Called a Player
CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:39 AM
Should we guys take this as a compliment?
I used to think being called a player is wrong
but im starting to think its nice to be called it now

any other people feel tha same
yesi said people
so guys and girls do answer!
:wink:

e69's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:40 AM
I wouldn't take it as a compliment.

QwicherBytchin's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:40 AM
Were you holding a ping pong paddle at the time you were called a player?

no photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:41 AM
noway

no photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:41 AM
i am a player and proud of it............

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:41 AM
why not?
i think im starting to like it now
im no close to being a player but to be called one
hey wateva
guess im feeling tha darkside now
jus like how some girls like to be called a a b1tch

kojack's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:41 AM
It's not a good thing in my opinion.

To me, it is saying that you play with emotions, and just want to see how far you can get with someone, amd once you get what you want you move on to the next victim.

JMHO

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:41 AM

Were you holding a ping pong paddle at the time you were called a player?


lmao
nah but a controller would be more fun
laugh

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:43 AM

It's not a good thing in my opinion.

To me, it is saying that you play with emotions, and just want to see how far you can get with someone, amd once you get what you want you move on to the next victim.

JMHO


well i starting to realize, maybe i was suppose to be a player than some sweet loving fool but i was cursed to be just a sweet loving guy who doesnt hurt girls at all

but when im labeled a playah i guess tha nightmare is over?
laugh :wink:

steelangel's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:44 AM
noway I prefer to think of it like this:

A player is someone who plays on people's inabilities to see farther than their own desire for a relationship, allowing the called "player" to take blind advantage of his victim.

I like to think of myself as someone who knows that a relationship could end at any time, live it while you can, then like the last cigarrette, when it's gone, it's gone.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:47 AM
i just cant believe this girl thinks im a player
im not even close to this
im not greedy and all
this girl must be truly hurt by guys or something
totally trauma even

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:48 AM
depends on who's saying it and your personal view on it...
When your guy friends are calling you a player guys tend to mean it as a compliment like "your the man" but that's just the social aspect of the guy group. On the other hand if a girl calls you a player it is an insult like "you a As@#$@" but no matter who says it, it still depends...do you want to be labeled as a manwhore? because that is basically a synonym for player. JMHO

LC_P's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:48 AM
Not a good thing....

Just think back to Dreams by Fleetwood Mac...

"Thunder only happens when its raining
Players only love you when theyre playing"

Why would you want to be known as someone who 'get's around' and uses girls.

.....

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:49 AM

depends on who's saying it and your personal view on it...
When your guy friends are calling you a player guys tend to mean it as a compliment like "your the man" but that's just the social aspect of the guy group. On the other hand if a girl calls you a player it is an insult like "you a As@#$@" but no matter who says it, it still depends...do you want to be labeled as a manwhore? because that is basically a synonym for player. JMHO


i starting to really not care
since most girls like those guys anyways yet front like they dont want to be with one

steelangel's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:50 AM
some people have trust issues - Americans especially like to dramatize relationships. They're really simple. You have to live for yourself first - and the other next. When being in a relationship means you are hurting yourself in ways that do not allow you to advance in the life you want for yourself, you have to get out. That's the bottom line. People have this idea that relationships are supposed to last forever. I don't believe in this - perhaps the one is out there for me that will, but there's no guarantee that I will find her first time.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:50 AM

Not a good thing....

Just think back to Dreams by Fleetwood Mac...

"Thunder only happens when its raining
Players only love you when theyre playing"

Why would you want to be known as someone who 'get's around' and uses girls.

.....


why do some girls act like they are worth it when really they are just whores and dont know it?
same thing
they dont care

steelangel's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:51 AM


Not a good thing....

Just think back to Dreams by Fleetwood Mac...

"Thunder only happens when its raining
Players only love you when theyre playing"

Why would you want to be known as someone who 'get's around' and uses girls.

.....


why do some girls act like they are worth it when really they are just whores and dont know it?
same thing
they dont care



Perhaps they just haven't realized it yet.

vegetaleese's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:51 AM

A player is someone who plays on people's inabilities to see farther than their own desire for a relationship, allowing the called "player" to take blind advantage of his victim.


Good definition.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:54 AM



Not a good thing....

Just think back to Dreams by Fleetwood Mac...

"Thunder only happens when its raining
Players only love you when theyre playing"

Why would you want to be known as someone who 'get's around' and uses girls.

.....


why do some girls act like they are worth it when really they are just whores and dont know it?
same thing
they dont care



Perhaps they just haven't realized it yet.


same with guys being players

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Thu 01/03/08 07:56 AM
Does playing games fall into this category?

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