So I've read posts on here from the "Guys" who ask, I'm nice gals, what's missing?

Advice: Maybe this happened to you too. I noticed many many years ago that when I had a woman in my life that other women seemed to also be attracted to me at the same time (whether that woman was with me or not). So I thought, "Gee where were all these women before I got hooked?".

But what I figured out was very important. When I didn't have a woman I started to convey that same scent of having one. There's a certain happy vivid quality that happens inside when someone special is a part of your life. Others catch that.

So, when I really want to meet someone I simply transform my innerself to that guy "with a woman" and I swear by it that I meet really as many women as I want. I'm not saying they all work out but I make good connections and eventually....

I believe part of this has to do with renewed confidence in life. So get it by faking it and see what happens.

Any other guys have this same experience?

Yeah, actually I do. That is SOOOOOO weird that you say that!!!

I think there are really simple things that we forget about that could make meeting someone real easy. Like right now in my life I don't care to meet anyone. If it happens great but I'm not workin' on it cause I have so much else goin on.

Seems many here are in hot pursuit; And if so then make some changes if the lanes are only directing to you loneville.

Soooooooooooo you go around thinking you have a woman but you dont so this attracts women???

So what you are saying is, women are attracted to happy, confident men, who are secure in themselves, and don't appear desperate?




No kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wore my wedding rings when I went to visit friends who lived a few hours away.......just because they are so pretty......weird those things seemed to attract men like flies!!! I found it really odd......

I just wear pherimone cologne. It attracts women like flies to poo. And some of them are flies and some of them are poo.

What about honesty? You all say you are looking for a sincere, honest woman..

Most of the guys were poo too.......but I just found it odd!!!

Ummmmmm yep! Sounds strange but it's a matter of getting to that feeling that brings about inner confidence --but there is an extra quality that you can't define with what I am talking about. That's why TryinToBeFly finds it "weird but true".

I actually believe it may have something to do with pheromones.

All I'm saying is that the guys who have had relationships before and are seeking a new relationship can think back to that "feeling" that created opportunities they didn't previously see they had.

Okay I'm tired and rambling but I know there will be another guy that will agree with this.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm so you have to have the attitude that everybody wants you........that you are Rico Suave.......damn I love that song.......you slap on your Hi Karate and you dance to it whilst getting ready to go out on the town..........and then........everyone wants you!!!

I MUST LOOK FOR THAT SONG RIGHT NOW......

oh here it is.............by Gerardo!!!

I like Billy Squire better.

Nope! Like your humor but that's not what I wrote.

Obsession works better anyway.

To my knowledge this does not happen with women at all. I have asked and no woman has had this... but the male freinds when not joking around seriously stated that this was correct.

You do become more Suave.

Everyone is suave until they are naked.......

I would say that was true for me when I was streaking across the football field in the 80's.

and you have pictures???

As luck has it No! At least none I'm aware of.

Im trying to think........did I ever?????????????? hmmmmmmmmmmm no but I did skinny dip once........that was .............awkward.......