start talking to an old friend and fall for them over again? I just chatted with some girl I haven't talked to in a couple years and I've completely rekindled everything I ever felt for her. Too bad she lives 5 hours away.

yeah...but are feeling for her or the memory?

yea and i don't recommend it... there's a reason they are called ex's

she's not an ex! she's a former friend and i don't remember much about her it's been about four years. i just saw a picture of her and was like whoa I used to be friends with her and I just talked to her. I guess it doesn't matter much b/c she lives so far away but like idk

sometimes it's hard to tell your heart that...

my friends are all dead........

Five hours isn't bad. Did SHE rekindle feelings for you with herself? If it goes both ways, might not be a bad thing to at least consider it. If it's just you, then, let sleeping girls lay.

No she said she likes me too. It's not that it's far it's just is it worth it it's only been one night back to being friends.

personally, i think one should always let sleeping girls lie..

Go for it Bro, lifes short and you never know man!!

*pokes Kev for using the word BRO*

YES! She's been one of my best friends since grade school. We've always flirted but never followed through and we lost contact several times while I was in the Army. But every time we'd find each other the feelings came back. We both got married and life happened, but even still to this day we talk and have very strong feelings for each other. We're very open about it. Now I'm getting a divorce so if she ever ends up in the same boat (which I hope she doesn't) I'd take care of her without a second thought. I know it's wrong cause she's married but I swear that if 'soulmates' exist then she's mine. But I'm perfectly content with remaining friends. I'd never try to break up a marriage or a family.

true

I agree

So my question is what was it that made you two separate!? That happens the same things that attracted you before are still there, what separated the two of you may still be there too!

the thing about ex's is that you really don't miss the person...you miss the memory...

it's not an ex it's a friend and what made us stop talking? she said i was mean in the past and I'm not mean anymore I guess. I've changed a lot the past couple years

I say go for it. I have a friend that I have known since first grade. He and I were always very attracted to one another, but too shy to do anything about it. Something happened, no fault or blame by either party, that we didn't talk for 20 or so years. I found him again in 2005 on classmates dot com.
We are best of friends again and there has been the same old feelings as before.
Don't pass on something and regret it by wondering forever. Wondering what might have been if only you had said or done this or that. That still makes me crazy about he and I today.

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