Why is it when ppl find out that you have intrest in a man and the man have intrest in you on JSH..why does girls have to start problems and getting him to think other things..Even when these girls don't even know me. I'm wanting what everyone else wants. to be happy. loved cared for..someone to snuggle with and do things with. I'm not a ***** by anymeans...I guess it don't help when he won't change his profile...I guess i'm blind and need some in-put from some honest ppl out there...ty..have a good night to all

I would guess they would do that b/c they either have a romantic interest in him or they are friends and they don't want to see him happy...

worry about yourself.............

I'm intrigued, but confused... What are the others saying?

Some of the guys here can be jerks, but don't lose faith, you will find one! I am trying too, but I haven't yet either! It is tough, but keep the faith! I am!

If he hasn't changed his profile I certainly would not change mine. Actually until i meet someone in person i don't change it

And a 2nd tip. Keep your interests private. Telling others always complicates matters on a site.

those people are called s*&t stirrers...they can't live without drama...and the more they can start the happier they are...

Wow thank you all for taking your time and giving me in-put..It all help out tons..really it all made sence to me...Hugs to all