Topic: accidentally pressed something
dchmelik's photo
Mon 01/22/24 09:41 PM
I use the website and avoid 'apps' (as in pad/tab(let)/phone programs) but in recent days noticed results pages have an x and heart by each photograph, because I accidentally pressed one. Can you explain the way to undo this or provide a way to undo it? It's important because almost certainly I'm not the only person making this mistake. There also should be a setting to omit these buttons from result pages.

Mr Good Guy's photo
Tue 01/23/24 09:24 AM
Not sure I understand completely but I'll give it a shot.

1. So you clicked the x or heart by accident and are asking that this entire option be eliminated so you don't make the same mistake???? Or at least the "option" of eliminating it? That seems ridiculous. How about just not clicking on either???!!! Problem solved.

2. If you clicked on the X by accident, no, you won't ever see them again in your list. Again, just don't click on the X next time now that you know.

3. If you clicked on the heart by accident, so what? It's doubtful they will respond anyway.

Hope I covered it here.

no photo
Thu 01/25/24 03:12 PM

Not sure I understand completely but I'll give it a shot.

1. So you clicked the x or heart by accident and are asking that this entire option be eliminated so you don't make the same mistake???? Or at least the "option" of eliminating it? That seems ridiculous. How about just not clicking on either???!!! Problem solved.

2. If you clicked on the X by accident, no, you won't ever see them again in your list. Again, just don't click on the X next time now that you know.

3. If you clicked on the heart by accident, so what? It's doubtful they will respond anyway.

Hope I covered it here.



Great observations and advice...

I had accidentally pressed the heart button the other evening and couldn't remove it. I felt bad but only because I had broken my non-engagement streak. I no longer make intentional overtures. In my case, a reply from non-scamming woman is exquisitely unlikely and even far less likely to be at all cordial.

At the same time, I have no idea what the typical experience for a woman on this site is should they happen to initiate communication.

dchmelik's photo
Wed 01/31/24 11:18 PM
It's not ridiculous for a website to not have these buttons except in profiles and ask confirmation for anything permanent.