I hadn't made a decision whether to become a paying member or not...

And put of viewing the profiles of everyone who viewed me...

So today I started to view my viewers lol

Anyway, it made me feel a little ashamed that I'd only uploaded 1 photo, since many of you have lots of pics...

I'd like try to upload some more, but I so much hate pics of myself ... I'm not photogenic lol...

Don't worry Jaan, 99% of the women on here are fakes and those are not their actual pictures anyway.

Notice most are not selfies that have any identifiable landmarks in them, they are generic indoor shots.

If they are out doors they are nowhere near the location that the "woman" claims to be from.

So leave them wondering and when you finally meet one face to face then you can give her the other pictures, just don't hold your breath for that to happen for a LONG time.

BTW my shots are edited due to the scammers and frauds that have tried to blackmail me on here and use my other shots on different sites to misrepresent who they are.

Is it really that bad?

Last time I was here about 7 or 8 years ago, it was a sooper dooper kinda place, with lots of genuine people, I even went on a few F2F dates/meets...

Shame really cos this place was my go to place, for a bit of sanity and a laugh with faraway friends...

Times have changed. It's still a bit of a social site for the veterans. But the newbs are a bit more abrasive with theire crap and don't know what pg-13 is anymore.

Good Morning NotPay4Play,


Yes I saw that some of them don't appreciate the rules...

It's a bit sad but we have to remain positive I guess, and avoid the rif raf lol...

When that popup appeared the other day, the one where you send likes, there were a couple of real cute and Intelligent mature ladies that caught my eye...

And the little voice in my head said "Send Likes", so I clicked on their photos and sent my likes...

After the deed was done and likes sent... I realised I had de-selected them two cuties and sent it to everyone else

Doh!! Well needless to say, that put paid to that plan

I get so many Views I have to delete daily are they pile up.
Many are not in my age range anyway.
I don't expect to date off here I am already interested in someone. I do message a few that Message me.

For many years, I kept my profile as
schitty, and antisocial as possible.
Mainly, in an attempt, to keep people
uninterested, and out of my inbox.

I didn't f'n work!

Lately, I've updated to seem approachable.
Bingo! Not a single message from an unknown,
for over a month.

lol it is so true, I think people go through and click anyone just for the heck of it cause most times they are looking for suckers, and don't write anything on profile. be careful!

Finding views from someone in my age group is a rare plus...

And please stop making us less viewed people jelluss

It's strange that you say that...

And it's a bit like if your status is single, not many are interested, but if its taken/in a relationship you get lots of views

Thank you Joy

I try to be careful, but if you come across a fairy godmother please ask her to watch out for me

Ufff 🤯

I clicked the send like button instead of closing the stupid popup

You should or shouldn't become a Paid Member once atleast.. So you can view an share your experience.
How you feeled being FUULFILLED

I felt like an idiot 🤣 🤣

Well don't, there's plenty others in this world that really are idiots.

So anyway, I'm off to go look at your profile now!

That hat though

Hahaha 🤣🤣

When the aliens land and read everyone's minds...

I'll be laffing then 🤣 🤣
and everyone else will be crying



When I worked in the insurance office, I wore it at work for a laugh, for a whole week ...

I was surprised at how many people came in to chat and have a laugh about it, many said they'd make one too after buying the tinfoil 🤣

I oftentimes take a photo down on date sites.

Because I message Men who I am interested in.
Unlike many women who wait for Men to message them.
They maybe waiting because there are hundreds of Photos of women for Men to look at over and over and over.

So that's why your photo was awol