can y'all please tell me how to trust again? esp. here online. how will you know if someone is talking to you srsly? cause i love to know someone nice but its too hard to trust anyone here. I've been in 7yrs on and off relationship and it gives me trauma to trust again. so please send me some advice. i badly need one. tia!

if u want to knw
u hve to talk later u know everything

I’ve had someone try to romance scam me and I was on to him right away. But it’s exhausting to have to constantly guess everything

Focus on yourself instead of being scrabbling the head on these love dove stuffs.. Think of building up your career an go on with friends nearby.. Spend more time with family members and keep mind busy in some workings or an other activities which you like.. ( Reading, sports music etc..)
Life experiences only comes out when you face the consequences by self learning...

you can trust me...there is no more to say now..

Find someone worthy of your trust.
Be worthy of their trust.

Inability to trust is basically fear of vulnerability.
Work on your own emotional stability first.
Work on building stable self-esteem.
Understand what parts of you are secure enough to share with someone else and which parts you reserve until you find someone you 'can' trust.

Build trust slowly but with a good foundation.
Start small. Exposing the inconsequential parts of you.
If the prove to be trustworthy with that, divulge something a bit more personal and wait to see if their trustworthiness holds true.
Then as you build a solid trust with them share a bit more then a bit more and soon your trust for them will have a solid meaning.

Just remember trust has to work both ways.
Also, lies destroy trust.
Once lies are told, its probably best to end the relationship and move on.
It helps you you state that...at the start of the relationship.

Just remember to always hold your word.
If you say you are going to do something, make sure you do it or if circumstances prevent it, openly share why with them.

Choose wisely!

Have genuine everyday conversations with people, too.