quote]I will let you in on a little secret none of the men here have bothered to share .. men on dating sites face frequent rejection and can be blocked simply for sending a message that says Hi Beautiful .Let a female user of this dating site, who physically appeals to me, reject me via a video call.

Let a female user of this dating site, who physically appeals to me, reject me via a video call.

i have micro issue but ijust want to have fun not son

I think you shouldn't allow depression to define you. Yes it's part of you. But it's not all you are, unless you allow it be.

If it's kicking you all the time that means you are not recieving effective treatment. This should perhaps be where you are proactive about your own mental health and work on that.

I am not saying it's easy, I am saying you need to find a way, because I don't believe everyone always has good days, even good weeks or a year. I mean look at how C-19 impacted everyone one way or another. However there should be days where you are not chronically depressed. Sure it can be a fight.

A relationship won't make you happy, a honeymoon period may but not a relationship when the honeymoon part wears off. Then it takes work, so apply that work to yourself. Have a relationship with yourself. Once you've managed to balance your depression then look towards slowly talking to ladies.

There are disabled people in relationships, but if you are struggling constantly with your mental health how are you expecting another to manage it if you are not.

Learn your own patterns, there are tell signs when you are starting to feel low. Do it because you are worth it.