Topic: Complain/or Shut UP
sealove42's photo
Tue 01/01/08 11:51 AM
I had an awesome evening for News Years while the kids were at their dads, I went to a UNR game, met a friend for dinner, I went to the movies alone Charlie Wilson well done political movie that says a lot. WEnt Ice skating till 11, then watched the big fire work show. Downtown was packed lots of people. I don't know that anyone said Happy New Year, except for a high five from someone.

I felt happy that I conquered the evening alone.... Atlas I awake this morning mad as hell that my kids didn't call, and I'm alone. When they get here tonight should I just pretend that its all fine that they didn't care enough to call?

I called them but there dad said they went to sleep.

I don't know

mrosebro's photo
Tue 01/01/08 11:56 AM
not that they shouldn't have called... cause they should've...

but myself, on things like that, i think makeing something out of nothing can just be the path of MORE resistance...

everyone's gunna look at this one diffrently, really it comes down to do you have a point to make? if you do, then yes, bring it up to them, if not... i'd suggest you try to brush it off.

Like i said, that's one you need to figure out.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Tue 01/01/08 11:56 AM
I say Great Job on making the evening a nice one for YOU. Don't say anything. Guilting them now will do no good. I have to wonder why it is so important they call you.

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Tue 01/01/08 11:56 AM
how old are your kids???? Wow.....sounds like you had a fun evening and youre going to be pissed that your kids didnt call and wish you a happy new year??? huh


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Tue 01/01/08 11:57 AM
I didnt call my parents........are they going to hold it against me or will they care about me anyways????? Wow....fukced up priorities.....indifferent

sealove42's photo
Tue 01/01/08 12:09 PM
Family, consideration... something my family use to do. Where ever we were we use to called... I've tried to do the same. I called they were asleep, they are teens. I am not pissed, just believe family is important enough to call- especially holidays.

With your language I can see that you thought and consideration for others is well mannered.

Take Care, and Happy New Year.


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Tue 01/01/08 12:11 PM
ya and calling your kids and waking them is really considerate!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

sealove42's photo
Tue 01/01/08 12:22 PM
They were teens, I thought they would be up... Happy New Year, thanks for your input... noway