Topic: wanna find love and commitment
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Wed 11/09/22 07:52 PM
:wave: guys iv been single for 5 years an I'm having trouble dating I can seem to keep up I don't know how to date since I don't go out much I thought let me try the dating sites :ok_woman: not working at all ppl only want hookups

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Wed 11/09/22 10:36 PM
Good Luck :ok_hand:

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Fri 11/11/22 05:02 AM

:wave: guys iv been single for 5 years an I'm having trouble dating I can seem to keep up I don't know how to date since I don't go out much I thought let me try the dating sites :ok_woman: not working at all ppl only want hookups

Sex is an activity too....so on your profile when you say activity partner it depends on the viewer,how they interpret that...and that's how they will treat you. It might not be a very specific phrase to use. Just thinking

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Fri 11/11/22 05:13 AM
I suggest you go out more. Dating sites are full of crazy people.

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Fri 11/11/22 10:03 AM
Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

So far you've been given some good advice, but just to throw my 2 cents in the pot.

Every where you go is a chance to meet someone and possibly to find a compatible relationship. Online just allows you to screen a person first.

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Mon 11/14/22 11:56 AM
It seems like all dating sites are just hook ups or scammer, there seems to be a lot less in the forums though. Good Luck

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Tue 11/22/22 02:40 PM
I know the frustration! I have been single my whole and only got back to the dating sites recently. Still all I find are guys that just want the hookups or they're divorced because of abuse. say what? Yeah, I know...not working. I'm 42 now and just come these sites/ apps to talk to others, seems it's hard to find friends, too. Sheesh!


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Tue 11/22/22 02:44 PM
Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

So far you've been given some good advice, but just to throw my 2 cents in the pot.

Every where you go is a chance to meet someone and possibly to find a compatible relationship. Online just allows you to screen a person first.

That can be so true. Everyday is a new experience with loads of possibilities. But it still kinda sucks that there is so much more of what you don't want, finding it is too easy more that the searching for what you do want.

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Tue 11/22/22 10:25 PM
I know the frustration! I have been single my whole and only got back to the dating sites recently. Still all I find are guys that just want the hookups or they're divorced because of abuse. say what? Yeah, I know...not working. I'm 42 now and just come these sites/ apps to talk to others, seems it's hard to find friends, too. Sheesh!

Good Luck :ok_hand:

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Sat 11/26/22 05:08 AM
:wave: guys iv been single for 5 years an I'm having trouble dating I can seem to keep up I don't know how to date since I don't go out much I thought let me try the dating sites :ok_woman: not working at all ppl only want hookups

Im not after a hookup at all.. Taking things markedly slow.. its the best way to start a sustainable relationship
might be easier to find a match here in the forums!