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Topic: Please Rate my profile.
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Fri 10/28/22 09:26 AM
I seem to not find anyone yet. I am not sure what is wrong with my profile yet. I seem to get mostly fake profiles on here. Can anyone please tell me and what I may need to improve on? Thanks in advance.

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Fri 10/28/22 10:17 AM
Seems in too hurry, just six days.
Have patience.
Good Luck..

2only:v:

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Fri 10/28/22 10:23 AM
Seems in too hurry, just six days.
Have patience.
Good Luck..

2only✌

Ok, thanks.

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Fri 10/28/22 11:35 AM
Ok, thanks.

Also everyone, I forgot to mention this before on this form that I can't see likes because I don't have a paid subscription on here. I only message people that are serious about either friends or a relationship but only if you message me first but say more then just Hi are you, please. Thanks in advance.

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Fri 10/28/22 11:40 AM
:laughing: Seems you're new in dating or networking.. browse forum play games an be careful from money laundry games info as contact me personally on bla bla site or app:wink:

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Fri 10/28/22 11:50 AM
The write-up is a little on the negative side. It's quite a paragraph on "what you don't want", but says nothing about you or the character traits that you are attracted to. I stopped reading after awhile, but that's because I have a short attention span. Your images are also just the first pic uploaded twice.

The forum is the best part of this site. Hope it goes well for you :sunflower:
Good luck!

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Fri 10/28/22 12:26 PM
The write-up is a little on the negative side. It's quite a paragraph on "what you don't want", but says nothing about you or the character traits that you are attracted to. I stopped reading after awhile, but that's because I have a short attention span. Your images are also just the first pic uploaded twice.

The forum is the best part of this site. Hope it goes well for you :sunflower:
Good luck!

Ok, just change the bio.

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Fri 10/28/22 12:28 PM

The write-up is a little on the negative side. It's quite a paragraph on "what you don't want", but says nothing about you or the character traits that you are attracted to. I stopped reading after awhile, but that's because I have a short attention span. Your images are also just the first pic uploaded twice.

The forum is the best part of this site. Hope it goes well for you :sunflower:
Good luck!

Ok, just change the bio.


Awesome! It does read much better than before. :sunflower:

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Fri 10/28/22 12:30 PM
Awesome! It does read much better than before. :sunflower:

Ok, thanks for the information that you told me!

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Fri 10/28/22 01:57 PM
It improved a lot.
I'd give 3 out of 10

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Fri 10/28/22 02:11 PM
It improved a lot.
I'd give 3 out of 10

Lol Damm man only 3 out of 10. Smh

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Fri 10/28/22 11:17 PM
Stay Positive :laughing:

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Sat 10/29/22 12:01 AM
Your profile is good.

You would have better luck if you socialised or joined a group where you met people face to face.

For me, Mingle2 is more about joining the forums, giving and reading other members' opinions...not about finding a man.

Get out there and enjoy. Good luck :slight_smile:

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Sat 10/29/22 01:11 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 10/29/22 01:14 AM
Most important one on a dating site is your photo. If that isn't good you're not getting any traction. Yours is not good. No one will be attracted to or interested in a grumpy looking person. --> Get a new one with a smile.


FROM YOUR PROFILE TEXT:
-Hi. I can't see likes. --> delete this

-There are have are a lot of times I have done something nice for someone. --> correct this sentence. Get your sentence structure right.

-If who don't have a profile picture of yourself don't message me. --> delete this, off-putting as it's negative. Also, why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? And again: Get your sentence structure right!!


- I only want people that are serious about friends or a relationship to message me. --> why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? Delete it.


- If you want to know more, please ask me. ---> delete. Unless you're a superstar and you have a big fanclub no one will ask you anything. YOU got to sell YOU.

- Profession: Maybe I'll tell you later on. ---> Oh? What's with the secrecy? Don't have a job? What are you hiding that you "Maybe" tell it later??? This isn't looking good. Fill it out honestly.

Also, add what kind of woman or man and relationship you're looking for.
As it is your profile is bad.
You get a 1 for effort and reacting to replies to your question here. That doesn't change the fact that your profile is bad.

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Sat 10/29/22 08:22 AM
Most important one on a dating site is your photo. If that isn't good you're not getting any traction. Yours is not good. No one will be attracted to or interested in a grumpy looking person. --> Get a new one with a smile.


FROM YOUR PROFILE TEXT:
-Hi. I can't see likes. --> delete this

-There are have are a lot of times I have done something nice for someone. --> correct this sentence. Get your sentence structure right.

-If who don't have a profile picture of yourself don't message me. --> delete this, off-putting as it's negative. Also, why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? And again: Get your sentence structure right!!


- I only want people that are serious about friends or a relationship to message me. --> why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? Delete it.


- If you want to know more, please ask me. ---> delete. Unless you're a superstar and you have a big fanclub no one will ask you anything. YOU got to sell YOU.

- Profession: Maybe I'll tell you later on. ---> Oh? What's with the secrecy? Don't have a job? What are you hiding that you "Maybe" tell it later??? This isn't looking good. Fill it out honestly.

Also, add what kind of woman or man and relationship you're looking for.
As it is your profile is bad.
You get a 1 for effort and reacting to replies to your question here. That doesn't change the fact that your profile is bad.

Ok, first of all I never said that I was never getting any traction, I am. I was just that I was getting mostly scammers and not many real people. Also, I will be putting up a newer better picture of myself soon. I just now again redid my bio on my profile. Sadly when I had took my profile picture I was not angry at all but unfortunately I didn't realize that I looked angry or mad I have some nerve damage at the corners end at my mouth because I had a medical problem. I am sorry that people thought that I was angry that is was not and is not my intention to look that way.

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Sat 10/29/22 08:58 AM
Most important one on a dating site is your photo. If that isn't good you're not getting any traction. Yours is not good. No one will be attracted to or interested in a grumpy looking person. --> Get a new one with a smile.


FROM YOUR PROFILE TEXT:
-Hi. I can't see likes. --> delete this

-There are have are a lot of times I have done something nice for someone. --> correct this sentence. Get your sentence structure right.

-If who don't have a profile picture of yourself don't message me. --> delete this, off-putting as it's negative. Also, why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? And again: Get your sentence structure right!!


- I only want people that are serious about friends or a relationship to message me. --> why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? Delete it.


- If you want to know more, please ask me. ---> delete. Unless you're a superstar and you have a big fanclub no one will ask you anything. YOU got to sell YOU.

- Profession: Maybe I'll tell you later on. ---> Oh? What's with the secrecy? Don't have a job? What are you hiding that you "Maybe" tell it later??? This isn't looking good. Fill it out honestly.

Also, add what kind of woman or man and relationship you're looking for.
As it is your profile is bad.
You get a 1 for effort and reacting to replies to your question here. That doesn't change the fact that your profile is bad.

When I has said that "I only want to people to message me that are serious about either friends or a relationship" I meant it as in if they are not serious about it I don't want them to message me because they might either be looking to scam or looking for something else that I am not looking for. I didn't mean it as in I want them to message me first. This was taken out of context.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 10/29/22 11:28 AM

Most important one on a dating site is your photo. If that isn't good you're not getting any traction. Yours is not good. No one will be attracted to or interested in a grumpy looking person. --> Get a new one with a smile.


FROM YOUR PROFILE TEXT:
-Hi. I can't see likes. --> delete this

-There are have are a lot of times I have done something nice for someone. --> correct this sentence. Get your sentence structure right.

-If who don't have a profile picture of yourself don't message me. --> delete this, off-putting as it's negative. Also, why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? And again: Get your sentence structure right!!


- I only want people that are serious about friends or a relationship to message me. --> why do you expect women to message you? Why not be proactive and message them? Delete it.


- If you want to know more, please ask me. ---> delete. Unless you're a superstar and you have a big fanclub no one will ask you anything. YOU got to sell YOU.

- Profession: Maybe I'll tell you later on. ---> Oh? What's with the secrecy? Don't have a job? What are you hiding that you "Maybe" tell it later??? This isn't looking good. Fill it out honestly.

Also, add what kind of woman or man and relationship you're looking for.
As it is your profile is bad.
You get a 1 for effort and reacting to replies to your question here. That doesn't change the fact that your profile is bad.

When I has said that "I only want to people to message me that are serious about either friends or a relationship" I meant it as in if they are not serious about it I don't want them to message me because they might either be looking to scam or looking for something else that I am not looking for. I didn't mean it as in I want them to message me first. This was taken out of context.

Sure, and we all get that but we aren't looking to date you but to give you the advice you asked.
We get what you mean, but it doesn't come across like that.
A profile is selling yourself, and it should be like an invite which means, open, interesting, positive. So convey your message in a different way that comes across as that. Meaning, rephrase.
Like one can say, "Shut the door!" (order) or "Shut the door please." The difference is in the tone of voice.
But geezzz... I shouldn't have to explain that. It ain't rocket science.

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Sat 10/29/22 12:32 PM
Sure, and we all get that but we aren't looking to date you but to give you the advice you asked.
We get what you mean, but it doesn't come across like that.
A profile is selling yourself, and it should be like an invite which means, open, interesting, positive. So convey your message in a different way that comes across as that. Meaning, rephrase.
Like one can say, "Shut the door!" (order) or "Shut the door please." The difference is in the tone of voice.
But geezzz... I shouldn't have to explain that. It ain't rocket science.

Ok, thanks for the advice and information. I really appreciate it.

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Sat 10/29/22 09:29 PM
Ditch the fixed income and unemployed thing.
Its not a shining star in the dating world.

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Sat 10/29/22 09:42 PM
Ditch the fixed income and unemployed thing.
Its not a shining star in the dating world.

Ok, I just now changed that.

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