To all the ladies and men young and old, don't ever let anyone treat you less than what you deserve and that's to have someone treat you with kindness and respect. If they tell you or treat you that they care about you just not that way, believe them. Don't let people manipulate your feelings for them, they can say they're just being honest but they can also act or say things in a way that draws you in. Please take responsibility for allowing it but then recognize you are awesome! You are worthy of love, affection and someone who will give you the best. When people push and pull you but you allow it then it's just as much your fault as it is theirs. It's taken me months to see what I refused to see in the moment unfortunately love will do that to you. But when your finally free it's the best feeling in the world when you realize that you are perfect just the way you are. And when you finally allow people in your life that sees and treats you with care, well it's the most amazing feeling ever. I clearly see we were not meant for each other and even though I found out he said some of the most hurtful and untrue things about me, I still want him to find his person. I just wasn't what he wanted and that's ok. I hope he has found whatever it is he needs in his life. This has been my favorite saying, You may not be perfect but you are perfectly you!! I really hope you all find your person!!