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Topic: Any one ?
JaceKnows's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:18 PM
Tina's right.. run, don't walk. To thyne ownself be true. You'll be much happier out of a passive/aggressive relationship than you will be in one!

kearbey75's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:20 PM
It's nothing easy to deal with, but you can do it, maybe it's time that you continue to stay away from this man, apparently you keep going back, well the longer you continue that process, the longer you will live in pain, so my opinion would be for you to move on, don't look for another man until your over him, i feel for you, good luck. :wink:

jennakathleen's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:23 PM
trust us, you are not the only person who has been thru this, and it is gonna hurt for sometime, you cant just get over 5 years with the same person. you have to remember why uou left, and keep saying it to yourself. what you do need to do is go out with friends, keep yourself busy. that does help alot more than you will even realize. it does get better, you just have to expect it to hurt, and ease out of it in a healthy way.

dcrdnk's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:25 PM
don't L@@K back

Good Luck

flowerforyou


glasses

timgibbs's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:25 PM
the more you concentrate on him, the more he will still run your life. find your real friends who will help keep you occupied until you are able to think more clearly & you have to get feeling better about being by yourself before you start another relationship. geeting into another bad relationship is exactly what you will do unless you give yourself the time to heal the wounds & be able to make the right decisions for you.

BitterBeauty21's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:29 PM
see i dont think there will be another relationship because every one always just wants hook ups an thats not me .. rather be alone then having random sex with ppl

no photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:33 PM

see i dont think there will be another relationship because every one always just wants hook ups an thats not me .. rather be alone then having random sex with ppl
:heart: And THATS the way YOU should THINK and BE...
To lose something that YOU KNOW has HURT you, is NOT a BIG LOSS..
And to HAVE PEACE,,,,is HEAVEN!!!!:heart: drinker flowerforyou smokin

ranjon333's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:35 PM

see i dont think there will be another relationship because every one always just wants hook ups an thats not me .. rather be alone then having random sex with ppl

just make it clear that you are a strong willed person and you want someone that is stable and careing

trueokie2's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:37 PM
Heartaches are like the worse pain you can feel. I know that somedays you just feel like giving up. There are always new beginnings just around the corner.

My heart goes out to you flowerforyou I have been there and know how it feels. flowerforyou

jennakathleen's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:43 PM
you are already thinking like you should be. to say you dont want to run around and have random sex with different people says so much about who you are. you rerspect yourself, and you know that. you keep heading in that direction and you will be fine.

yantraimages's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:15 AM
Sure it gets easier and then you get with someone else and it's incredibly wonderful and then it gets worse and then it's bad and then you break up with them, and then it gets better and then you get with someone else..... it's a viscious cycle but you do get a little bit more numb each time, so yes it gets better!!! woo hoo!!!

no photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:16 AM
yea its gets easier.
but its like Tom Cruise on a couch.
it has its ups and downs.
*comedic drum roll*

myusername's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:27 AM
Yes it will get easier "IF" you stay away & do things for yourself.


ranjon333's photo
Mon 12/31/07 12:27 AM
that was bad...i must of trained you

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