Topic: Whats your thoughts
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Wed 06/29/22 02:32 PM
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Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 06/29/22 02:40 PM
For the moment, here is my advice:

Please write a few lines about the person you would like to meet. And the "separated" part ... to some people, this indicates, you are not properly divorced and might go back to your Ex. Though I know from my own experience, that a Judicial Separation in Ireland and the UK is something final already, and that you only need a divorce if you want to get married again.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 06/29/22 04:29 PM
Well, I skip profiles that say what you say as it's both a red flag and too vague.
I could be wrong, but it sounds like "I recently broke up with my long term partner and now I want a date."
After a longer relationship someone needs time to recover, at least a year, usually longer.
Meaning if someone has recently broken up I'm not going to engage, no matter how interesting the man might seem.
I'm not interested in being someone's rebound as that'd mean I'm going to get hurt.
If the info isn't given that someone could be ready I'm also not going to engage.

So you may want to be a bit clearer and tell how long you've been separated and/or recovered and ready for new love or something. Or rephrase the whole lot.

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Wed 06/29/22 08:03 PM
^^^What they said and also I would remove that last line that says you do not take yourself too serious. Not something I would want to say to a potential match.