I just looked at a list of dozens of men in the yes/maybe/no selection and not even one of them had written anything about themselves or bothered to answer the simple lifestyle questions. What is wrong with you guys??? Do you really think someone is going to fall in love with you looking at a 1” high photo? Really? Get a clue!🤣

Yep, I’m finding the same too. Perhaps they think their charming good looks will get them what they want…..they’re wrong

oh that list is way longer than your list of yes no or maybe men

wondering if your list of may be men is the same as mine

What's wrong with me? Nothing. As my psychotherapist always says "If people have a problem with you, it shall be their problem"

I've been here for fourteen years.
I'm pretty sure by now, everyone knows I'm an
a-hole.

I assure you it's the same for the women's profiles. I can't believe they are all fakes, either.

Given how often I hear women grumble about men only caring about how a woman looks, I do wonder why so many only bother letting a man know how she looks..

As you say, if they can't even be bothered to fill out at least most of the lifestyle questions, just what do they think is appealing? (And I say that as a man who will admit he likes looking at a pretty face. But it's not enough!)

what Larsi said

I would have written more but my keyboard ran out of ink!

"Do you really think someone is going to fall in love with you looking at a 1” high photo? Really?"

Alas, I wish I could say yes, that would be the case with that someone whom I desire.

... I mean not to fall in love by just seeing my photo, but at least getting interested in knowing me, that would be the case with that someone whom I desire.

A photo tells almost nothing about whether you’ll be interesting. Most women I know are not all that interested in what a man looks like but what kind of person he is. Yes, sometimes you can tell from a face that you want nothing to do with someone, but positive traits are ire difficult to see in a photo.

Call me odd, but I also check, what surroundings a pic was taken in. It tells a lot about the person on the picture.

Putting a small details there might go a long way than just one photo I think

Your face is your business card ...we are all visual creatures ... if your pictures is appealing and sends out a certain vibe .... you will get a response ..... after that it's all about charm , personality ,character, availability etc etc .... ok ok sometimes cash flow enters the picture to ....I never put a picture of me with my dog ... cause then the dog gets all the attention..
First impressions still count ... even on a dating site !!!

All right you may well be correct about the worthiness of a photo to women in general, so I did bother myself from the very beginning to answer the six simple multichoice life style questions. On the other hand, the photo of a woman is the first thing that can or can't pique my interest in her. Call me shallow if you want to.