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Topic: Tell people what you’re like, guys!
Painthacker Joined Sun 08/06/17 Posts: 7	Sat 05/14/22 08:31 AM
I just looked at a list of dozens of men in the yes/maybe/no selection and not even one of them had written anything about themselves or bothered to answer the simple lifestyle questions. What is wrong with you guys??? Do you really think someone is going to fall in love with you looking at a 1” high photo? Really? Get a clue!🤣

delightfulillusion Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 119333	Sat 05/14/22 08:34 AM
Yep, I’m finding the same too. Perhaps they think their charming good looks will get them what they want…..they’re wrong

artRabbit Joined Fri 04/15/22 Posts: 1614	Sat 05/14/22 08:59 AM
What is wrong with you oh that list is way longer than your list of yes no or maybe men wondering if your list of may be men is the same as mine

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17182	Sat 05/14/22 10:16 AM
What's wrong with me? Nothing. As my psychotherapist always says "If people have a problem with you, it shall be their problem"

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sat 05/14/22 10:36 AM
I've been here for fourteen years. I'm pretty sure by now, everyone knows I'm an a-hole.

Douglas Joined Thu 04/21/22 Posts: 359	Sat 05/14/22 11:14 AM
I just looked at a list of dozens of men in the yes/maybe/no selection and not even one of them had written anything about themselves or bothered to answer the simple lifestyle questions. What is wrong with you guys??? Do you really think someone is going to fall in love with you looking at a 1” high photo? Really? Get a clue!🤣 I assure you it's the same for the women's profiles. I can't believe they are all fakes, either. Given how often I hear women grumble about men only caring about how a woman looks, I do wonder why so many only bother letting a man know how she looks.. As you say, if they can't even be bothered to fill out at least most of the lifestyle questions, just what do they think is appealing? (And I say that as a man who will admit he likes looking at a pretty face. But it's not enough!)

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9012	Sat 05/14/22 11:34 AM
What's wrong with me? Nothing. As my psychotherapist always says "If people have a problem with you, it shall be their problem" what Larsi said

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sat 05/14/22 12:16 PM
I would have written more but my keyboard ran out of ink!

Unknow Joined Wed 08/12/20 Posts: 431	Sat 05/14/22 10:25 PM Edited by Unknow on Sat 05/14/22 10:59 PM
"Do you really think someone is going to fall in love with you looking at a 1” high photo? Really?" Alas, I wish I could say yes, that would be the case with that someone whom I desire.

Unknow Joined Wed 08/12/20 Posts: 431	Sun 05/15/22 03:44 AM
... I mean not to fall in love by just seeing my photo, but at least getting interested in knowing me, that would be the case with that someone whom I desire.

Painthacker Joined Sun 08/06/17 Posts: 7	Mon 05/16/22 11:22 AM Edited by Painthacker on Mon 05/16/22 11:22 AM
A photo tells almost nothing about whether you’ll be interesting. Most women I know are not all that interested in what a man looks like but what kind of person he is. Yes, sometimes you can tell from a face that you want nothing to do with someone, but positive traits are ire difficult to see in a photo.

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17182	Mon 05/16/22 12:53 PM
Call me odd, but I also check, what surroundings a pic was taken in. It tells a lot about the person on the picture.

Lily Joined Mon 05/16/22 Posts: 13	Mon 05/16/22 02:29 PM
Putting a small details there might go a long way than just one photo I think

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39606	Mon 05/16/22 02:30 PM
Your face is your business card ...we are all visual creatures ... if your pictures is appealing and sends out a certain vibe .... you will get a response ..... after that it's all about charm , personality ,character, availability etc etc .... ok ok sometimes cash flow enters the picture to ....I never put a picture of me with my dog ... cause then the dog gets all the attention.. First impressions still count ... even on a dating site !!!

Unknow Joined Wed 08/12/20 Posts: 431	Mon 05/16/22 09:22 PM
A photo tells almost nothing about whether you’ll be interesting. Most women I know are not all that interested in what a man looks like but what kind of person he is. Yes, sometimes you can tell from a face that you want nothing to do with someone, but positive traits are ire difficult to see in a photo. All right you may well be correct about the worthiness of a photo to women in general, so I did bother myself from the very beginning to answer the six simple multichoice life style questions. On the other hand, the photo of a woman is the first thing that can or can't pique my interest in her. Call me shallow if you want to.