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Topic: for every one
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Sat 12/29/07 11:17 PM
first off I am getting annoyed about seeing all these topics about how u are never gonna find someone,or my life sucks on and on so much more but no need to write it all down ya get the point,well guese what throwing a pitty party does not make u look good,makes u look desperate,it also does not help u feel better it brings u down even more.so cheer up and get in the forums and start posting,and getting to know people.that is the only way u are going to meet people.
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Insulting each other brings no one any joy ,what do u get out of insulting each other, u all know words are never forgotten,its truly not that hard to sit back and think before doing or saying.
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(((LOVE)))) has lost its true meaning it just gets used so freely now I Honestly can not see how u can love someone that u just met that u know nothing about.And even if there is that possibility that u do fall in love,how u can just up and one day have no feelings for them have a cold heart???how can u love
someone for so long and just like that your done nothing.pls explain how u can just up and have no feelings no nothing left for someone u loved and cared about.



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Sat 12/29/07 11:20 PM
well said OC.

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Sat 12/29/07 11:20 PM
well said. drinker drinker i had my pity party earlier b/c i was upset, but im all good now. flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 12/29/07 11:21 PM
Cat I am with you on the negativity thing... As for love well it is a times and by some used too freely.. But some really mean it.. Which goes hand in hand with losing it... I think some people try and try and finally just get tired and can't do it anymore and sometimes the only way get over it is to shut down and close them out so they can't hurt you anymore... The ones that use it too freely, well they probably love like changing their underwear...

I hope you're having good luck and nothing but positivity... Happy New Year!!

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Sat 12/29/07 11:22 PM
huh huh huh But I like insulting people!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

And the love thing.......well it was obviously NOT love if they can just forget about that person just like that.....


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Sat 12/29/07 11:23 PM
Bravo Cat o' Mineflowerforyou



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Sat 12/29/07 11:23 PM
Pity party= agreed.

Insult/attacking... hmmm... a good debate is great... I think everyone should have a right to their opinion... and I seriously think some people are just overly sensitive to the truth. Real life is not sugar-coated... we all have to deal.

Love right away... you can't help what your heart feels. Love comes in many forms and in many dosages...different degrees...

And to love and then not love... well... you can love the person you meet, and then find out they aren't the person they proclaimed to be... so what of that?


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Sat 12/29/07 11:23 PM
wow this is deep.... you see as a playa I use the word love alot.. but I aint lyin there are different degrees of love... and besides until I've had it I just dont know I might love that pu$$y. now after I had it if I dont I just gotta say sorry .. thought I loved the pu$$y but I was wrong have a wonderful life.. if its ok and there is nothing good on tv then I might hit it again

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Sat 12/29/07 11:24 PM
LONELY PEOPLE SAYS ALL KINDS OF THINGS. WHAT TO DO WHEN NOONE WRITES THEM AND YES,THEY READ ALL THE POSTS AND EVEN MOST ALL OF THE PROFILES. BUT STILL LONELY....... I'M GOING TO BED AND PULL THE COVERS OVER MY HEAD........

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Sat 12/29/07 11:27 PM
drinker CHEERSdrinker
Well said my friend

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Sat 12/29/07 11:31 PM
singing
yes I agreee every one has there opinions,and every one should have a right to there opinions,and yes some are overly sensitive,I would rahter the truth over any thing,so I do agree with u there.


but the love I dont fully agree with that,yes love does come in many forms,but I still cant see how u can fall in love with someone u dont not know,dont know nothing about and havent even seen them,but yes u do have some truth to that

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Sat 12/29/07 11:34 PM
Someone said party? <sips rum> I'm all for that!

"Love is all around, love is knocking outside your door. Love is all you need, all you need is love!" - TeslaBeatles

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Sat 12/29/07 11:35 PM

first off I am getting annoyed about seeing all these topics about how u are never gonna find someone,or my life sucks on and on so much more but no need to write it all down ya get the point,well guese what throwing a pitty party does not make u look good,makes u look desperate,it also does not help u feel better it brings u down even more.so cheer up and get in the forums and start posting,and getting to know people.that is the only way u are going to meet people.
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Insulting each other brings no one any joy ,what do u get out of insulting each other, u all know words are never forgotten,its truly not that hard to sit back and think before doing or saying.
Third
(((LOVE)))) has lost its true meaning it just gets used so freely now I Honestly can not see how u can love someone that u just met that u know nothing about.And even if there is that possibility that u do fall in love,how u can just up and one day have no feelings for them have a cold heart???how can u love
someone for so long and just like that your done nothing.pls explain how u can just up and have no feelings no nothing left for someone u loved and cared about.





couldnt have said it better myself.drinker drinker

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Sat 12/29/07 11:41 PM

singing
yes I agreee every one has there opinions,and every one should have a right to there opinions,and yes some are overly sensitive,I would rahter the truth over any thing,so I do agree with u there.


but the love I dont fully agree with that,yes love does come in many forms,but I still cant see how u can fall in love with someone u dont not know,dont know nothing about and havent even seen them,but yes u do have some truth to that
I started out as a penpal to my fiance almost 2 years ago. We became very close... talking on the phone, emailing, etc. He is in the Navy, stationed in Guam until August 2008. I talk to his family in Arizona regularly. In July we started talking about the possibility of marriage. In October, we became officially engaged. I am moving to Arizona at the end of January to be closer to his family. We are getting married in March. I have never seen him face-to-face... but I do know as crazy as it all sounds, nothing in my life has EVER made more sense. It's rare... but these situations can happen and result in success... I do believe wholeheartedly that my situation will be successful.

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Sat 12/29/07 11:45 PM
guese I posted it with out fully explaining everyting,yes u are right it can happen,and congrats on this I am truly happy for u and I hope it does work out for u.


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Sat 12/29/07 11:53 PM

guese I posted it with out fully explaining everyting,yes u are right it can happen,and congrats on this I am truly happy for u and I hope it does work out for u.



Thanks.
And in all honesty, I think that LOVE depends on the individuals involved. Some people operate at a fast pace very comfortably and are successful, while others drag at a snail's crawl and never find success... it depends on how great the couple's leap of faith is, and what extremities they are willing to face.

Arranged marriages have been around and worked for centuries... in cases like mine, we just arrange our own.flowerforyou

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Sun 12/30/07 01:56 AM
oh, love, so complicated sometimes, yet so simple. But, I think for most people who fall in love though they've never met, it's a very serious infatuation. Doesn't make it any less real. Once they meet, could it turn into the "real" thing, maybe yes, maybe no, all depends. As for loving someone one day, then not loving them the next, well, it probably wasn't real to begin with in the case of short-term relationships. In a long-term relationship, though, it doesn't really work like that, I don't think. For whatever reason, it's a gradual falling away of the feelings. By the time the words are actually said, it's probably been going on for some time.

As for the whining nobody loves me, everybody hates me posts, yup, I agree, they put you in a bad light. There are ways of phrasing certain things better. But, my only real objection are the "serial" posters, the ones who post a couple of times a day or daily on the same thing. Once is plenty.

Thank you, stepping off my soapbox now flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 12/30/07 01:59 AM
To the topic.... AMEN TO THAT! Silly, immature, pricks who are ungrateful is what I say. They cry and no body cares to play a violin for them. Seriously! People post crap on here and NOBODY CARES! We just like to through in our two cents every now and then. I am sure I posted crap that nobody cares about. In fact I am sure of it. Gee.... Now that I think about it.... I am kind of embarrassed for it. LOL

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Sun 12/30/07 02:05 AM
Nah, don't be embarrased Random, we've all posted stuff we wish we could take back at one point or another. It's the constant by the same few that drives me nuts. flowerforyou

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Sun 12/30/07 02:06 AM
you could have atleast waited til i had my own pity party before you started this topic OC! grumble grumble grumble

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