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I said before, “In love, there is really no guarantee… you love more or you love less, it is no guarantee you would never get hurt again. You cannot weigh or measure a love you can give someone based on how much love you will get in return.”
There is no machine, tools, equipment, formula – calculations or equations to calculate the intensity of love. You cannot even imagine or even think what or how much love the other feels for you. You can only say or describe how you feel – the depthness – the intensity of your feeling. You can only speak for yourself and not the other. We can give them a peek to what is inside of us, in our heart by painting pictures of how you feel through words, through pictures, through actions, through our minds – our beliefs, through many things but it still would not give the other one the perfect image of it – the true definition of it. You cannot measure your feelings by the number of hours you sleep or the lack of it because you spent hours thinking about the one you love. You cannot say, you love someone more because of the price tag or the number of gifts you have given them. Love cannot also be define because you remember each significant dates – the birthday, anniversary, monthsary, valentine, sweetest day, Christmas, New Year, or not even the day you remember you first met them and count every second since day one when you meet them. It is also not a measure of the number of times you say, “I love you” to that special someone. Definitely not a measure by the meals you’ve eaten or skipped because you were watching your figure or not because you are just simply inspired and motivated and in love. Certainly, love cannot also be measured by the number of hours you are willing to spend or you spent with that someone… Sometimes, no matter how much you want to describe the feeling – word or words are just not enough. Love can be expressed in so many different ways, in so many different levels. You can always claim yours is the greatest love of all – or greater love there is – proving it is a whole different subject. Unlike in accounting or financial world – there is no check and balance in love – you cannot say you reconciled and it balanced out – one crossing or offsets the other and one is equal to one. It is also not like in architecture – you cannot just simply draw something and say, “Yes this is enough to support to it – the columns, and the beams, the thickness of whatever – the weight of everything – the gravels and the sands” – no matter how many numbers you factored in, even if you factored in all and everything you can think of, from text books, through knowledge, experience, and expertise… love still cannot be measured or described exactly. When someone says to you, “You are equally loved…” how do you define? Equal to your feeling for them, equal to the intensity, the depths, and the shallowness. You can only hope and wish and pray when one says you are equally loved, they meant the indescribable feeling… and that it is as honest, as pure, as true as what you are feeling for them... maybe then one can already measure love, maybe then – we can already define love… maybe… but for now, my love still remains indescribable, immeasurable and unmeasurable, unjustifiable, indefinable, and undeniable… |
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Without suppression Love is treasured Scientifically measured In search of love Lot of research done Need some Reciprocal Anyway it is hypocral Wonderful Yes undeniable! |
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