Topic: Rate My Profile
Tobias1540's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:18 PM
So I have been here for a while and to be honest I am not getting into many conversations with women. So I want to find out if there is anything in my profile that is "scaring" women away from me. So to all the woman out there I would love your opinion on my profile.

This isn't an attempt to gain pity etc etc this is an exorsice to see if I am presenting myself in an undesirable way. And what I could change or not on my profile.

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Sat 12/29/07 06:27 PM
i'm not a lady but i'll give you my advice...as i talk to a few people on here. My advice is that your profile is a bit lenghty....most people aren't going to take the time to read the whole thing. Put a few key points in there and not a biography. also sorry if this offends you but you come off as a little bit desperate..I.E "i'm looking for a mature, serious, or semi-serious relationship" it sounds like you are willing to take whatever comes your way. Girls like men who have confidence..not to be confused with cockiness..and who are know what they want. Not only that but you messaging girls first...picking key thing off thier profile and try starting a conversation on that. So far that is what has worked for me. Just some advice dude...good luck

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Sat 12/29/07 06:27 PM
Tobi! i have been stalking you for how long now? grumble grumble grumble

seahawks's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:29 PM

Tobi! i have been stalking you for how long now? grumble grumble grumble
gotta love that tobi, lol

Tobias1540's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:30 PM
Lol i didn't know that you were stalking me. I have a hard time reading signs lol. But send me a message if your interested. Who knows I might reply back.

And Isaac thanks for the advice, my profile has grown more and more as i think of new things to add, but I don't take anything off.

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Sat 12/29/07 06:30 PM
laugh laugh okay okay so I'm creepy grumble grumble grumble laugh laugh laugh

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:31 PM

laugh laugh okay okay so I'm creepy grumble grumble grumble laugh laugh laugh

geez dude...if she's been stalking ya...i don't know what your doing still looking!

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Sat 12/29/07 06:32 PM
oh yeah and sea i just started stalking you devil devil devil laugh laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

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Sat 12/29/07 06:32 PM
Edited by Tobias1540 on Sat 12/29/07 06:35 PM
Wow I feel loved :D

There is no need to stalk me though I am not spurning your attention lol

xander29's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:33 PM

laugh laugh okay okay so I'm creepy grumble grumble grumble laugh laugh laugh


sounds more like fun than creepy to me

misty_57's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:34 PM
Just a little long tobias, otherwise it's cool :smile:

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Sat 12/29/07 06:35 PM
tobi... can we eat sugar plums and hold hands? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh ...... sorry i just watched elf laugh laugh

Tobias1540's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:37 PM
lol Elf is sweet. And i wouldn't mind holding your hand even though you are stalking me I'm cool with that laugh laugh

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:42 PM
<leaves the room queitly and give tobias and his stalker some alone time laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 12/29/07 06:42 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 12/29/07 06:47 PM
happy laugh laugh