do you think that parents should take decision on whom should their child marry?

No, we are all an individual being; and the freedom to make the choice for themselves

Which raises the question:
Would my child accept me decided for him and her?

Their reply would either be

OR



And quite rightfully so. That kind of thing went out of style centuries ago.

some parts of the world has seen a resurgence of arranged marriages ..... actually , it never went out of style ha ha !!!
OT:: the way things are looking right now , someone better arrange it for me .... lol !!!

First be capable of taking all responsibility well, without being a burden on parents an Arrange ourselves in such a way that the love get involved in such a eay that family rearrange the marriage persimmon with thier blessings.

I know that.
But we don't live in such countries. And where we live, and most of Mingle members with us, it went out of style yonks ago :)

This subject has been discussed a great many times, especially around the time when I first got here.
Someone who lives in a country where it still happens explained that in some such countries the couple does have a say in matters. They can decline if they think the match isn't for them.
In other countries, I think in Africa mostly and maybe Middle-East, they do not have a say and just have to marry whomever their parents chose, whether they like it or not.