Topic: What do you think?
Patti's photo
Thu 10/28/21 08:28 PM
I'm hoping to get some honest opinions here. I believe I have stated as clearly as I can just what I am hoping to find here on this app. But, from some of the responses I've received, it appears I'm not "speaking my mind" well enough? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Ava Adore's photo
Fri 10/29/21 12:08 AM
I'm hoping to get some honest opinions here. I believe I have stated as clearly as I can just what I am hoping to find here on this app. But, from some of the responses I've received, it appears I'm not "speaking my mind" well enough? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

I think you've made yourself loud and clear. If anyone says you're not "speaking your mind" well enough, I think those people are the ones who don't know what THEY want!

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Fri 10/29/21 12:43 AM
What you think is more important,
rather than what other things or opinion.. until your mind is clear and positive..:v:
Good
All The Best :thumbsup:

Laska Paul 's photo
Fri 10/29/21 03:59 AM

I'm hoping to get some honest opinions here. I believe I have stated as clearly as I can just what I am hoping to find here on this app. But, from some of the responses I've received, it appears I'm not "speaking my mind" well enough? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


This is only a Suggestion .
Don't you Think it would be Nice to ask a Question and get a Simple answers from your dating Friends. Do you think Dating is Harder or Easier with Internet .
Anyway Welcome to The Comfort Zone of Mingle2.

delightfulillusion's photo
Fri 10/29/21 04:12 AM

I'm hoping to get some honest opinions here. I believe I have stated as clearly as I can just what I am hoping to find here on this app. But, from some of the responses I've received, it appears I'm not "speaking my mind" well enough? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


I like your profile and you’ve clearly stated what it is you’re looking for.

I expect the responses you’re talking about are from members who haven’t actually read your profile. Some just open a profile to look at pics without actually reading the text contained within. At least, that’s my experience anyway.

Just a little criticism…perhaps a better profile pic would enhance your profile further or crop the one you have so that you’re in the centre of the pic.

Good luck.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 10/29/21 09:33 AM
Firstly, your profile photo is really no good the way it shows up as a thumbnail. When seeing the larger version it's okayish, but not the thumbnail. I actually thought it was a man's, it's that unclear!
Profile photo is important, so get another one!

You text is way to much unnecessary story. Get rid of all the stuff that's superfluous, which is most of the first part. Clean it up, prune, and only have in it what's important to a potential new contact.

Next, your write up is one solid block of text. Paragraphs were invented for a reason! Normally wouldn't even bother reading it. When I see that I'm gone, no matter how much the person initially interested me.
If you can't do this on the app then get on the full site, albeit on your phone or PC.

cleve's photo
Fri 10/29/21 12:29 PM

I'm hoping to get some honest opinions here. I believe I have stated as clearly as I can just what I am hoping to find here on this app. But, from some of the responses I've received, it appears I'm not "speaking my mind" well enough? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


IT'S TRUE WE CAN NOT CONTROL HOW PEOPLE TAKE IN WHAT WHAT WE

SEND....WHEN I AM SHARING MY POINT OF VIEW I KNOW I WANT THEM TO

SEE THE SENSE IT MAKES TO ME....MOST OF THE TIME THEY WILL SEE

THE SENSE IT MAKES TO THEMSELVES INSTEAD....OR THEY ARE PREPARING

THERE RESPONSE TO ME IN THERE HEADS AND OR TRY TO SHOW ME HOW I

AM WRONG.....''YES BUTT''

.......SPARKLINGCRYSTAL, GAVE YOU SOME VERY GOOD ADVICE....

Patti's photo
Fri 10/29/21 01:11 PM
Thank you Ave. It's good to know I can be clear with my thoughts and feelings.

Patti's photo
Fri 10/29/21 01:47 PM
Hmmmmm....such varied responses. And I appreciate them all. Miss Crystal, I totally agree with you. I will work on my paragraphs. And, if I was looking to date...to impress someone....I would be more concerned about my profile picture. That's the simple truth of it. I feel that communication and friendship comes from within. As for saying too much....you're right. But, that's who I am and anyone who chooses to respond should be aware to expect such nonsense. LOL. To repeat, your points are "sparkling" clear and I truly appreciate and will work on them. Yes...people are gonna want what they want. Can't change that. I simply remind a persistent point of view that I have mine and it's all good. I believe that we all would love to have an honest and intimate relationship with another but, physically, 100,000's of miles is a difficult fact to deal with. Friendship is at the top of my list. If it does lead to more I'll take that picture. Yep, I'm a talker. Been alone too long. That's what I'm here for. Communication. Thanx for the ear and the tips.

cleve's photo
Fri 10/29/21 02:41 PM

Hmmmmm....such varied responses. And I appreciate them all. Miss Crystal, I totally agree with you. I will work on my paragraphs. And, if I was looking to date...to impress someone....I would be more concerned about my profile picture. That's the simple truth of it. I feel that communication and friendship comes from within. As for saying too much....you're right. But, that's who I am and anyone who chooses to respond should be aware to expect such nonsense. LOL. To repeat, your points are "sparkling" clear and I truly appreciate and will work on them. Yes...people are gonna want what they want. Can't change that. I simply remind a persistent point of view that I have mine and it's all good. I believe that we all would love to have an honest and intimate relationship with another but, physically, 100,000's of miles is a difficult fact to deal with. Friendship is at the top of my list. If it does lead to more I'll take that picture. Yep, I'm a talker. Been alone too long. That's what I'm here for. Communication. Thanx for the ear and the tips.


''GO FOR IT GIRL'' GOD BLESS

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Fri 10/29/21 03:36 PM
You said it sort of.... " want friendship more than I do intimacy'
Men want the other way..." sex and stay friend so there will be more sex
You need to fulfil their needs and find one that love to talk for your needs
Couples I know here, she never misses a beat and lets him know she want to carress and excite, turn him on and have her face show it him
Those couples stay together

no photo
Fri 10/29/21 03:37 PM
Grammar is no issue here and does not really please