Kerri and to all the other ladies..... One guy like this will give all others a bad rap..... Guys like this i want to meet in a dark ally and kick thier ass's.... Take us men for what and who we are at face value... Thats how i do it... One at a tme, until i find the right lady.....

sorry to hear


I hate that so many men out there give us a bad name

Give yourself time tell him you don't want to talk to him
until he gets himself fixed this will give you time to break the emotional hold he has on you so you can look at things from a outside point of view but i must tell you people don't change
They are who they are so the chances of him fixing himself are slim to none but it makes it easier on you to walk away

I think we all agree you should move one, run run!!!

his a sick liar and won't change on less he goes to therapy, but you need get as far away from him as possible. he might go un poco loco.

Think I'll forget about the revenge...and him!
[More importantly...] I need a date for New Years! lol

lets see 53 - 22 = damn it..... lol

good luck Keri

just forgetting about him seems like the best option

have a fun and safe new year

Erase him completely out of your life, mind, heart, everything. Revenge is never the answer, it will only lead to more problems.
Also don't rush to date someone , you are most vulnerable at this time, give yourself some time, talk with friends, families, have fun.

I see this is another one of those bash guys threads & so many men are meekly bashing their own sex....GET OVER IT!!!

If a guy doesn't call you for three weeks HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU!!!!

Now that doesn't make him a pathological liar or anything else you accused him of being....the easiest way to end a relationship is NonCommunication....women do it to men all the time and vice versa...So live with It...

Smartest thing to do would be to move on, especialy if the only other option is "revenge". That would only serve to bring yourself lower in the end. However, if the guy is sick he may need a support system;^]

100% agree with looook

You are a fool.
There is more to the story than that, and Im sure %95 will agree that most men are dogs.
The pics were him and his ex, he was supposed to be on a trip for a week. Im not so stupid to believe that after 3 weeks he missed me! The pics were of where he REALLY was.
Thanks for being such a heartless bastard. :o) Have a good day!

Get like 5 pictures of different guys and throw a picture of him in there. Put them in an envelope and mail them to him with a note that says..."sorry I got your name / face confused with a few other guys, will you please write your name on the back of your picture and mail it back so I know who what one you are before I decide?"

Bluesky- Whoa! The issue here is that we only know one side of the story and that is what we go with. Are you upset she did not go for your pushing revenge? I think you're being a bit harsh here, and you yourself are doing some assuming. We don't know why they did not talk for three weeks, it was the holidays you know. Try not to assume. I know we all do it, but taking it to a pedantic level contributes to both "men" and "women" bashing.

First off I didn't call you 'Fool' or 'heartless bastard'....and you say, '95% will agree that most men are dogs'....Now I know why this guy is not interested...the real you is on display....

And you never told us about the pictures with his Ex....but then again the relationship with you was probably already over in his mind....I would think after 3 weeks of him not calling, you would get the message...

Heartless, maybe, But I think I'm Honest & just because you are trying to get everybody to agree with you doesn't mean there isn't another side to this story....listening to you speak assures me of that...

I think we've established that there is no reason to contact him ever again... so this thread has run its course - no reason to continue it and make hard feelings for anyone.

Dang We're not bashing each other... just giving a little advise.....

I wouldnt care if everyone told me I was the crazy one, at least they'd be honest and they'd probably have more tact about it than you.

Keri, There's just another you ignore.... don't give him the time of day with another responce....

Hey Keri,

Just forget about him...just be glad you found out before you got more involoved. I'm divorcing my husband of 17 years because I have had enough of his lies. Found out a few months after we were married that he even lied to me on our first date! How sad is that!!! Should have left him then but then I got pregnant and thought maybe he would change....nope didn't happen. Oh well, at least I have the most amazing son I could ever ask for and that is worth all the crap and lies I put up with for all those years. There are some good honest men out there and hopefully we will both find one of them! Good luck and have fun on New Years...don't need a man to do that! My friend and I are getting together to do mani's and pedi's...no men invited!!!!!

Good luck to you!