I signed up tonight as a new member and 2 hours later I got my second mutual match but 3 hours later (30mins ago) it disappeared. How can this happen? Maybe if the user deleted their listed profile but it makes no logical sense that they would click yes to my mutual match I sent and then delete their profile so soon after agreeing to a match. It was an attractive woman in my area so does that mean she was too attractive and must have been a spammer, and if so how do they delete the match from my account?

You mentioned it just there, many users disappearing were spam accounts indeed. I a sense you were lucky, as these con artists can cause some trouble.

I just got another match from another user and when I looked up her profile is was deactivated. Yes a spammer but how can they make mingle2 send an email to me stating that we both had liked each others profiles when I had never even seen the users profile - I know I hadn't coz it had no photo which I would never bother with - their either ugly as hell or a fake spamming - likely the later? mingle2 should know if I had ever even view the profile so is the website hacked by others constantly gaining access thru the security system that should be protecting the genuine users?

Mutual Match is only a wee game for starters. Please don't take it all too serious.

And again, nobody behind Mingle, like the admins, would send out mails, pretending to be a user. These notifications about a mutual match are automatically generated.

I was under the impression that both parties needed to click on the hart turning it red to indicate to the other user that they are interested to make a mutual match. If I don't click on the hart, how can a mutual match still be made?