How to start a best conversation ever!

THE BEST CONVERSATIONS HAVE THE BEST LISTENERS....


1- REFLECT BACK WHAT YOU THINK YOU HEARD IN YOUR OWN WORDS.IF

CORRECT ASK IS THERE MORE.

2-NEXT VALIDATE....( IT MAKES SENSE TO THEM ) 3-LAST

EMPATHY,,REPEAT BACK THE FEELINGS YOU HEARD......EVERYONE WANTS

OTHERS TO SEE THE SENSE THEY ARE MAKING TO THEMSELVES.....THE

FIRST MISTAKE IS WE TRY TO SEE THE SENSE SOMEONE ELSE IS MAKING,

MAKES SENSE TO OUR OWN SELVES.... EVERYONE WANT FOR OTHERS TO SEE

THERE POINT OF VIEW...AND THEY NEED TO KNOW YOU HEARD THEM

CORRECTLY....AND YOU GOT IT !

ABOUT VALIDATION,,,,, YOU KNOW THERE POINT MAKES SENSE TO

THEM.....SO WE CAN TRUTHFULLY LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU CAN SEE HOW

IT MAKES SENSE TO THEM.....START A CONVERSATION,SIMPLE.. HELLO...

YOU ASKED, MY ANSWER..........

Like Cleve said, just listening is often mistaken for good conversation.
I might also ask their opinion on just about anything (not Politics
or Religion.)

Take in what they say.
Respond it IT rather than offer your own.

Real conversation stems from sincerity..pat answers
will not cut it.

Like both said . A Good Conversation always has a Good Listening.