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Topic: Could i still be the man?
briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 12/26/07 09:58 PM
There is nothing wrong with being a little bit more cultured and educated. Variety is the spice of life. That is not being effeminate. Some people are just content with what and who they are. Don't deny yourself opportunities or you will end up with future regrets. well i do realize that time is getting shorter, and i dont want to be on my death bed wishing i did something. its just going to take time, and a woman that will understand that im a 45 year old virgin with somethings.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 12/26/07 09:59 PM
It almost sounds like you live your life by what everyone else thinks. Do it your own way and let the chips fall where they may. If you feel like doing something, then do it. thats good that your a free spirit. it doesnt come easy for everyone

mgilligan Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 63	Wed 12/26/07 10:01 PM Edited by mgilligan on Wed 12/26/07 10:03 PM
You do realize half of what most people consider manly is self confidence (not to be confused with arrogence) and being strong enough to be true to yourself and not care what anyone else thinks is probably the manliest/most noable thing you can do.

TheCaptain Joined Wed 09/06/06 Posts: 44412	Wed 12/26/07 10:01 PM
Whos image are you trying to live up to?

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 12/26/07 10:03 PM
please read it carefully. i said with some things. not sex

mgilligan Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 63	Wed 12/26/07 10:05 PM
please read it carefully. i said with some things. not sex yeah I breazed through it caught it right after I posted it and fixed it... my bad

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 12/26/07 10:07 PM
Whos image are you trying to live up to? someimes you just go long with how you where raised. its like someone that was raised by racist parent, then they get out and get to know other people.

TheCaptain Joined Wed 09/06/06 Posts: 44412	Wed 12/26/07 10:09 PM
Beleive it or not, I understand the struggle. But just take a step in your own direction. Maybe not a big one, just a step.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 12/26/07 10:22 PM
I thank everyone for you r comments, and i am sorry if i hurt anyone by posting, DONT MARRY HER. Some old dogs can learn new tricks. HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE.

ZacharyRyan Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 3166	Wed 12/26/07 11:29 PM
hey Brian I enjoy reading your posts and think you're genuine you raise interesting points, like this thread props to you for opening up a little bit about yourself

shady7414 Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 543	Wed 12/26/07 11:31 PM
sounds to me like you should start dating men so there can be a man in the relationship just jokin dude .. this subject is way too deep for me

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 12/26/07 11:46 PM
Other than the macho side of a man, how do you get a woman to understand, and respect your other intrest that might not be masculine. What if you dont mind cuddling? What if you dont mind going shopping? Can you let her see you tear up from a sensitive scene in a movie? What if you dont mind missng a game, or hanging out with your friends? What if you dont mind hearing her talk about stuff you have no intrest in, but because your crazy about her, you dont care. What if you like going to the flower show, or a play. Do you tell her these things when you meet her? At what point does she see you as a whimp. Can she still respect you as the man in the relationship. How do you open up to her without feeling balless? HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Thu 12/27/07 12:06 AM
Dude you are sooo breaking the Man Law rules....