I believe it's hard to have a relationship while your just friends with someone else who just wants sex what do you think if you can understand me

If I understand what you are saying... you are in a fwb relationship, but you want a real relationship? End the fwb and focus on looking for a real relationship to get to know someone.

Not sure I can.

It's hard to have a relationship, meanwhile you have a friend who just wants to have sex, but you don't want sex?
Like your partner is always thinking you're cheating with your friend, because they know your friend wants to have sex with you, but to you it's just friendship?

Or you have a friend with benefits relationship with someone, and you want more than that with them? You want to date and go out and get married and love your FWB, but all they want to do is use you when it's convenient?

Or you have a FWB, and they're a friend, but you want to go out looking for a "real" relationship. But if you get a "real" relationship, then you're going to lose the "friend" part of the FWB?

Or you just don't want to give up the easy access to sex until you can monkey branch into a guaranteed relationship, but no one wants to seriously date or be in a relationship with you as long as you have a FWB?


I think you need to commit to a hard decision regarding what you really want, how to get it, and what's interfering with your success.

I disagree with ciretom.

I can admit it's tempting to have no strings commitment I mean it's not like there's no temptation involved I was once a Feb and it was good for the moment but than like blah no love no fun ..just blah