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Topic: LONELY MAN DIES WITHOUT LOVE
rodfcutler's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:00 PM
IT HAS BEEN DECIDED,NOT BY ME,BUT FROM GOD HIMSELF.I HAVE BEEN DESTINED TO LIVE OUT THE REST OF MY LIFE ALONE,WITHOUT ANY GOOD WOMAN TO FALL IN LOVE WITH,AND TO HAVE A WOMAN FALL IN LOVE WITH ME.
I HAVE FOR MY ENTIRE LIFE ACHED FOR TENDERNESS,TOUCH,HUGS,KISSES,AND JUST TO FEEL A COMPLETENESS WHICH I WILL NEVER EVER FEEL.
I WISH I COULD BE STRONGER AND FACE UP TO MY INEVITABLE LONLEY FUTURE,BUT MY INNER EMOTIONS ALWAYS GET THE BETTER OF ME.
I CAN SAY I WILL BE GLAD WHEN THIS LONELY LIFE IS OVER,AS IT IS NOT WORTH LIVING ALONE,FOR ANY REASON.
ALL LONLINESS CAN GIVE IS HEARTACHE,AND QUICK WEAR AND TEAR ON THE BODY AND SOUL ITSELF.
I AM JUST EXPRESSING MY CURRENT THOUGHTS,AND IF ANYONE HAS TRULY BEEN ALONE FOR 53 YRS,YOU WOULD FEEL THE SAME WAY,ESPECIALLY IF ONE LONGS FOR TOTAL LOVE,AND NEVER HAPPENS TO FIND IT ANYWHERE,BECUASE OF GODS FIRM HAND NOT ALLOWING ME PEACE AND HARMONY WITH HIM,NOR ANYONE ELSE!




SINCERELY,


ROD



PS.NOT PLANNING TO END IT ABRUPTLY,JUST KNOW WHAT THE FUTURE PLAN FOR ME IS.
I WISH YOU ALL ALL THE BEST FOR THE COMING NEW YEAR(2008),AND BEYOND.indifferent frown ohwell

Mike91ZX's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:02 PM
take off "sex" as an interest for starters.

Lillylover89's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:04 PM

take off "sex" as an interest for starters.

amen!

WhiteSox0507's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:05 PM

take off "sex" as an interest for starters.


laugh Yeah, that'd be a good start. Secondly, get out of the house and explore humanity. Third, go out and buy The Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss and do the Stylelife Challenge. Follow the missions and you'll have a date in 30 days. The more women you meet, the better chance you won't end up alone.

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Tue 12/25/07 11:19 PM
Edited by justkev08 on Tue 12/25/07 11:20 PM
Bro,
First, take the FU@&ING CAPS button off. Nobody likes that and its weird. Second, quit whining and sounding like that other guy Kulug or Gulug whatever his name is. Nobody like to hang out wit Eyore from winny the poo. Negativity will get you nowhere.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:26 PM
call a waaambulance.another woe is me victim needs a ride to heartbreak hotel..sad

Lillylover89's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:35 PM

call a waaambulance.another woe is me victim needs a ride to heartbreak hotel..sad
laugh laugh laugh

PreciousLife's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:36 PM
Gee whiz wilkers! A little compassion people! Rod is not exactly at the top of his game at the moment but you don’t have to chop his head off and kick him while he is down. A good rule of thumb – If you don’t have anything positive to say – don’t say anything!

Where the heck is the Christmas spirit around here anyway?

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Tue 12/25/07 11:38 PM
DOH!! True. Dont feel bad man. Girls arent beating down my door here either. Just relax and be thankful for the things you have...


call a waaambulance.another woe is me victim needs a ride to heartbreak hotel..sad

adj4u's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:40 PM
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AaronzDad's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:42 PM
Hey lighten up on the guy. Obviously he's hurting at this time of year. It ain't so easy for some to be alone on Christmas day.

Rod you just work on taking care of you. Sure you have some rough edges that could be polished a little but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you or that God has given up on you. Get some input on brushing up your profile here, talk to people who have been where you are so you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, maybe get some help figuring out where the negative attitude is coming from. No, that is NOT reality. The world isn't conspiring against you, God hasn't forsaken you, and you aren't doomed. Figure out why you see things that way and turn it around. You'll be much more attractive as partner material then.

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Tue 12/25/07 11:42 PM
Sorry GEEWHIZKERS but theres a difference between whining and having something to really complain about. Lack of sex and blaming god doesnt deserve compassion. It deserves a reality check like the one I just gave you...


Gee whiz wilkers! A little compassion people! Rod is not exactly at the top of his game at the moment but you don’t have to chop his head off and kick him while he is down. A good rule of thumb – If you don’t have anything positive to say – don’t say anything!

Where the heck is the Christmas spirit around here anyway?


adj4u's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:45 PM

Hey lighten up on the guy. Obviously he's hurting at this time of year. It ain't so easy for some to be alone on Christmas day.

Rod you just work on taking care of you. Sure you have some rough edges that could be polished a little but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you or that God has given up on you. Get some input on brushing up your profile here, talk to people who have been where you are so you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, maybe get some help figuring out where the negative attitude is coming from. No, that is NOT reality. The world isn't conspiring against you, God hasn't forsaken you, and you aren't doomed. Figure out why you see things that way and turn it around. You'll be much more attractive as partner material then.



i've been alone on christmas day for years

it is just another day the only reason it gets

harder is because you ley it and fall for the

dogma society puts on the day get over it

and live your life it only matters if ya let it

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Tue 12/25/07 11:46 PM
:heart: Some people have had to go through life w/o finding love,,,,,,,BUT
THEY HAVN'T WENT THROUGH LIFE W/O BEING CLOSE WITH WOMEN.....

So be BLESSED with the fact that I know YOU ain't NO VIRGIN..and life has brought us all here looking for what we are wanting in another....:heart:


BUT, KNOW THIS,,their ARE some here who have NEVER been with ANYONE sexually,

NOW ""THAT"" is a very , very sorry thing to happen to anyone's life here on earth..:cry:

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Tue 12/25/07 11:47 PM
No I wont lighten up. Feel sorrow for the dying. Feel compassion for those with cancer/hungry. Feel for the homeless. What I wont Lighten up for is someone who needs some tough love and a little kick in the pants..


Hey lighten up on the guy. Obviously he's hurting at this time of year. It ain't so easy for some to be alone on Christmas day.

Rod you just work on taking care of you. Sure you have some rough edges that could be polished a little but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you or that God has given up on you. Get some input on brushing up your profile here, talk to people who have been where you are so you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, maybe get some help figuring out where the negative attitude is coming from. No, that is NOT reality. The world isn't conspiring against you, God hasn't forsaken you, and you aren't doomed. Figure out why you see things that way and turn it around. You'll be much more attractive as partner material then.

WhiteSox0507's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:47 PM
Well if it makes everyone feel better, the guy hasn't hit rock bottom yet. If he had, then he'd be out fixing what he doesn't like about his situation instead of writing his complaints in a thread.

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Tue 12/25/07 11:48 PM
Well said!! Respect


:heart: Some people have had to go through life w/o finding love,,,,,,,BUT
THEY HAVN'T WENT THROUGH LIFE W/O BEING CLOSE WITH WOMEN.....

So be BLESSED with the fact that I know YOU ain't NO VIRGIN..and life has brought us all here looking for what we are wanting in another....:heart:


BUT, KNOW THIS,,their ARE some here who have NEVER been with ANYONE sexually,

NOW ""THAT"" is a very , very sorry thing to happen to anyone's life here on earth..:cry:

PreciousLife's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:49 PM
Everybody deserves compassion. It’s not reserved for only the worst possible tragedy. JustKev you might mean well and even have a good solution for Rod, but saying it with love will most likely get your message through and allow him to be open to it.

But then again everyone has a different style so do your thing, just try and soften the edges a bit so he can hear you. ;-)



Sorry GEEWHIZKERS but theres a difference between whining and having something to really complain about. Lack of sex and blaming god doesnt deserve compassion. It deserves a reality check like the one I just gave you...


Gee whiz wilkers! A little compassion people! Rod is not exactly at the top of his game at the moment but you don’t have to chop his head off and kick him while he is down. A good rule of thumb – If you don’t have anything positive to say – don’t say anything!

Where the heck is the Christmas spirit around here anyway?



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Tue 12/25/07 11:49 PM
Exactlydrinker


Well if it makes everyone feel better, the guy hasn't hit rock bottom yet. If he had, then he'd be out fixing what he doesn't like about his situation instead of writing his complaints in a thread.

adj4u's photo
Tue 12/25/07 11:50 PM
Breathe deep in the gathering gloom
Watch lights fade from every room
Bedsitter people look back and lament
Another day's useless energy's spent
Impassioned lovers wrestle as one
Lonely man cries for love and has none
New mother picks up and suckles her sun
Senior citizens wish they were young
Cold-hearted orb that rules the night
Removes the colors from our sight
Red is grey and yellow white
And we decide which is right
And which is an illusion


moody blues song excerpt

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