Hi
I’m a user with lifetime issues Autism and Epilepsy to be exact...
I’ve been single and looking for the perfect someone for a decade now.

Unfortunately I didn’t have a great experience with female kind
But even with autism we do the most things a woman or female needs but can’t receive
Mostly Communication and Respect.

For example I may be young but I’m talented in the confident way I talk or say things
:Oh how’s your day
Reply it’s been Lacklustre in that I don’t give her a yes or no
So that one word lacklustre gets her thinking without stressing about anything.
Most men just jump in bed and not say anything?

Another is that with the Autism vs epilepsy debate
True I’m not allowed to have kids
But I’m a calm confident young fit sportsman
And to be fair if you do have kids already good for you and over an average of 7-16 pre teens
It’s hard to deal with the communication and active side to things.

Well for me I’ve learnt much through those stages I was always quick energetic forget the
prescription drugs I’ve taken all my life....

But if you notice most autistic people do say something do something and don’t hang about till it’s done
Well I’ve always wanted to be a footballer now I am and won things even before puberty say 3 titles since age 16 and now 22 I’m a full coach and football is actually a short career really.

Oh I’ve had telly interviews and awards on all major fronts BT to BBC so it’s not bad is it
If your dedicated enough I’ve won best young community member from working with
Disabled or mixed disability teens which i find hard but we’re all the same
Don’t DIS disabilities it’s in the 1st 3 letters DIS. Only I can see those hidden messages


Going back to what I was saying even if you have kids and aged older than me
You’ll look back and think wow my husband’s lazy were can get the extra pair of hands or burst of energy
Well

As mentioned autism shows that we never give up never sleep to something’s done
plus the epilepsy side is scary due to drugs and it’s not a good experience or pretty
if seizures happen But don’t panic its just a life cycle
We are born beautiful we are beautiful and most importantly we are family based people
Can’t work without the other at any age

And before you choose a husband think what do you expect from them
Hope you enjoy
Please read and let me know

Hi MIKE, welcome to the forums.

If you haven't read, there is an interesting conversation similar to your topic namely
"Dating someone with an illness" http://mingle2.com/topic/612198

Thank you for sharing

Hi Mike, you know the answer to that. Look for someone compassionate and understanding.