Ok so at 1am on the 24th I am talking to a girl over txting that I met on this site and went out with on one date. Well we were talking and I told her how I was thinking about how i wasn't going to have a g/f for the holiday season, and then said but atleast I will get to see you again. Now I say this because after the date she told me to call her when I get back, and the date lasted like 3 hours. Well then she told me that she was too much for me to handle. She clarified saying that we were in different places citing that I am not screwed up enough to relate to her as my parents are not divorced and I have not gone through enough conflict in my life. How she knows this i don't know seeing as we had only been on one date. How I hate dating.

Pretty rough. Well, unfortunately that's life things worse then this happen everyday. You're just gonna have to brush this off as a learning experience forget her and move on not much else you can do.

sounds to me like she is screwed up and just making excuses and you dont need that......there are plenty more women out there

wow , that bites , never had someone not want to see me cause I was not screwed up enough, I usually nip that right in the bud.

Thats not all that happened that day either though the other is job related and we don't need to go into that lol.

I know how crazy is it that you are broken up with because you are too normal lol. Though anyone who knows me for more then a couple days nows how crazy I am lol.

I had someone I went on a date once the date was great and she never mentioned anything bad on the date, next thing I knew she said it wasn't right. Girls never seem to bring their intentions in right away

I don't know, but anyone who is wishing you were more screwed up as a means to you being better able to relate as opposed to be thankful that you are not, so that she might grow, is sounding some pretty loud alarms. When I wanted to learn martial arts, I went to someone who know how to do and teach. I wouldn't have gone in and said, "Hey, you aren't weak and unskilled enough to understand me so I'm gone."

Good luck man.

-Drew

Women are like employers each date is like an interview they don't want conflict so they won't say a word about something being wrong on the date they usually tell yeah your not getting the position on A Friday when your thinking things went well. I haven't crashed and burned alot as I normally can tell if something is going well and if it's not I'm the one to break it off before they have the chance to. LOL, I always want the upper hand...

isn't it funny when a girl goes far with you on a first date (further then make out) then she says she just wants to be friends?