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Topic: Hmm.....
Biggj's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:21 AM
When u are in a relationship with someone, do u consider chating on the internet cheating? Not forum talk, but personal chat. Let me know what yall think.

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Tue 12/25/07 09:23 AM
Personally I do

Noden's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:24 AM
Edited by Noden on Tue 12/25/07 09:26 AM
Depends where the chatting discussion is about, and I don't have to explain that one, you should already know this one, if it feels like a secret then hell I'd think so....ask your girlfriend what she thinks show her your conversation with the other, she'll tell ya........

kojack's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:24 AM
NO. You've made friends before you met them, and should continue to talk to your friends.


pashen37's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:24 AM
I dont..but alot of people i know do...especially if its sex stuff

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Tue 12/25/07 09:25 AM

When u are in a relationship with someone, do u consider chating on the internet cheating? Not forum talk, but personal chat. Let me know what yall think.


Most of my friends are women, and it's been like that since I was 15. So, I do talk to them on IM, through e-mail, in the forums, on the phone, in person, whatever. My gf has no problem with that; we've known each other for a long time and we trust each other. If the trust and respect is there, it shouldn't be a problem.

munch151's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:29 AM
I guess it depends on what you're talkin about and how well you know the people you're chatting with. I'd never ask my partner to give up her friends (online or otherwise) just as I'd expect her to understand that I won't give up mine. You also can't expect someone to stop making friends just because you become involved. Now, if you're trying to 'hook up' with someone online and hiding it from her then that's just not right.

wmyers4u's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:30 AM
My opinion:

If the chatting involves anything that your partner would not approve of............then you probably should not be doing it.

briancarr's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:31 AM
No its not cheating. Cheating is when you go on the pono sites, and download a bunch of thumbnail clips so you can have fun without having to look at her dissapointed face. I only heard about that of course.

Sexyklp4U's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:33 AM

Personally I do


Me too

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Tue 12/25/07 09:34 AM

Depends where the chatting discussion is about, and I don't have to explain that one, you should already know this one, if it feels like a secret then hell I'd think so....ask your girlfriend what she thinks show her your conversation with the other, she'll tell ya........


I agree with you totally....Secrets

Turtlepoet78's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:35 AM
To me cheating is anything you'd hide from your partner. So if you do it in secret yes, if not then no;^]

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Tue 12/25/07 09:36 AM

To me cheating is anything you'd hide from your partner. So if you do it in secret yes, if not then no;^]


Again, Im in total agreement....

MysticalMoon's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:37 AM
I think it all depends. Certainly think that you should continue your friendships. There is nothing wrong with that. But going into chat rooms and having sex talk, that would be something else all together.

kojack's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:39 AM
Wow Moon your up already ?

Did Santa bring you what u asked for ?

Off to Hospital to see grandma so ttyl

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Tue 12/25/07 09:41 AM

I think it all depends. Certainly think that you should continue your friendships. There is nothing wrong with that. But going into chat rooms and having sex talk, that would be something else all together.


And how would you know what sort of friendship it is exactly? Ive seen a lot of people talk to their so called friends about things they should be speaking to their partners about(fantasies etc)....On line especially....

shutterbug63's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:42 AM
well it depends on who you are chatting with, and what you are talking about. But I dont believe in keeping any secrets, so if it's something that would upset your partner, it's probably not a good idea. And besides, when I am really attracted to a woman, I totally lose interest in other women.

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Tue 12/25/07 09:42 AM
I dont. As long as it stays a friendly,clean conversation that stays on the internet. Once it reaches to the point when you take it off the internet..than thats a different story. Take care

Vikingsfreak's photo
Tue 12/25/07 09:46 AM
There are many different types of cheating. Physical, emotional, psychological. Believe me, they all happen.

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Tue 12/25/07 09:47 AM

I dont. As long as it stays a friendly,clean conversation that stays on the internet. Once it reaches to the point when you take it off the internet..than thats a different story. Take care


Yep Yep, so what you are saying is you are only on this site for friendship then....it will never be anything real?

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