Blondey, why do you accuse me of discrimination? I suggested they get a special category that they could choose or not choose. What is discriminatory about that? What makes you think men feel threatened by them? Sounds like an article from oprah or something. No where did I or anyone in this thread say they should have to identify themselves. If they chose to be in that category it would be because they wanted to be. As it is now, they have no such choice

I did not seek out that profile, as I said, someone sent me a nudge so I clicked the profile to see if I was interested. We may have clues to someone's real sex but its almost impossible now days to be sure. If someone presents themselves as a woman looking for a man and is a biological man, he/she should say so in the profile. And also say so in any messages. Otherwise its straight up deception.

Why not post as man seeking man? Because that goes against their self identity, I guess is the answer. So my suggestion would allow them to identify any way they wish and people would understand.

hi sugar daddi .. my response was to the topic ... only my last two sentences were directed to you personally .

As for discrimination ., male and female gender identity is regarded as the norm .... ,, transsexuals however represent a minority who have been subjected to prejudice , hate and abuse. Until such time that transexuality is accepted as a norm anyone identifying as transsexual deserves not to be segregated or made a target . If a man , not biologically born a man identifies as female .(or vice versa) . that is their chosen gender identity . They have every right to select female on the orofile . Should that not be enough ??? If anyone wishes to declare or explain their sexuality in a profile .. the “about me “ section caters for that .

As for feeling threatened ., I imagine the fact that a transsexual was able to pass as their “authentic gender “ would represent at least a small threat to your masculinity

Perhaps to help your mingle experience we could have a category for biological or engineered oenis/ vagina .