Whatever happened to just sitting in front of a fireplace and cuddling
in each others' arms for the entire night long??? Is that too much to
ask. That is what I want out of a relationship...to be loved. Not lusted
after, in which case they want to have sex with you every night. But
true, authentic love. That is the relationship I pray for.

I think that sounds sort of boring and is exactly what I don't want.
Sure I like going places with women and talking about stuff, but jsut
sitting there and doing nothing? Perhaps it is because I am only 24.

steve, maybe it is because you are a materialistic weasel and are
sex-crazed...oops did i just say that? Sorry I speak my mind way too
much...

Well, I don't know why you would call me a "weasel" but I am absolutely
materialistic. I think more people are than would admit it in fact.

I don't mind if you call me on stuff that is true, but being derogatory
to me based on me not agreeing with your love point-of-view is
superficial and mean.

I'm superficial? Nevermind I will not post what i am thinking. Fine
think what you will. I may be single now, but there is a little phrase I
like to live by. 'Great things come to those who wait'....

You calling me a "weasel" was based on an internet post. I don't think
it gets more superficial than that. I mean, you can post as if you are
better than me if it makes you feel better, but being aggressive to
someone who has a different perspective is sort of ignorant.

That was my point.

Also: Good things come to guys who show some juevos.

rhelton don't listen to steve.he one of the guy your mom warnd you
about. and your right no one want to hold each other no more.

Thanx smiley I know I will find the one someday; and it aint like the
women do not like me it is I am not trying because I am but there are
alot of special things in a woman that are a must. Otherwise we might as
well be friends.

It's not like I do not understand what you are looking for. Shoot I bet
there are lots of women out there who really want to sit all night and
cuddle like little snuggle bunnies for ever. Personally, FOR ME, that
does not sound like the kind of relationship I want to spend time
cultivating.

i understand steve....you would want a relationship in which she rides
you all night long. For me, I just want to hold her. We are different
and I am not the wild and bad boy. I am the 'nice guy' type. I am a
hopeless romantic what can i say.

I agree with u rhelton from a woman's point he is not even close to
being a man alot of the things he writes if i was him which thank god
i'm not i would take along walk of a short pier if u know what i mean

Actually, a good mix of both would be OK. At my age, I just can't go
every night. But, when I can; mama look out! When you are in true love,
like rhelton says, you don't really have to have sex every night. But,
on the other hand I can't turn down an opportunity to do the 'Horizontal
Mambo' either.
Steve, I actually started have problems with ED, which ironically is my
name as well, so there are times 'The Python' will not cooperate. It's
frustrating so I will resort to the cuddling and kissing avenue. But we
all need to adjust as time goes on. Also, Cialis does help :-)

nothing wrong with enjoying the afterglo or laying together for no
reasons its nice when your comfy with someone like that

I love to cuddle. It's almost as good as sex. lol

Steve needs burned a few times too help him be humbled. Hang in there
Steve there are plenty of woman out there just like you are looking for.
By the way, sex isn't cultivating a relationship

I am not worried at all. I have been burned, don't get me wrong, but I
am looking for something different than rhelton.

@the people being mean, I think that is funny.

BOY DID I HAVE A GOOD OL TIME READING THIS ONE!! SILLY BOYS!! ITS BETTER
TO ACCEPT DIFFERENCES AND MOVE ON.AND TO THE SUBJECT,I ABSOLUTELY LOVE
TO HOLD SOMEONE AND BE HELD,SOMETIMES YOU REALY NEED IT SOMETIMES YOU
DONT.I GENERALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE FIRST BEFORE I LET THEM INTO MY
PERSONALL SPACE.BUT THATS JUST ME!

I am not to much into cuddling and watching a fire place but love to
cuddle up and watch a movie. Sometimes it is the foreplay or after glow
and sometimes it is the main course. When you truely love someone you
want to be beside them all the time. But sex after the honeymoon years
is not always there but the love and the need to be with each other
still is. Back in the first couple years of marriage cuddling nearly
always led up to sex.

I think the cuddling part is great I am an older woman and I know one
day the physical "sex" part may dwindle.I want to know that thats ok
because my relationship is built on more than a mere physical
connection. Dont want a relationship that changes partners like I change
socks. So dedication is a major
issue for me. Im no Barbie or supermodel so mental and emotional
connection is very important. I think snuggling only adds to the
expeperience- whether it be before, in between or after the lovin makes
no difference. ANy one can do the physical act of sex. That is
instinct.It takes something special
to slow it down and make it personal. That is desire.

seriosuly what happened to it? lol! i miss those days!!! But better
things come along in the relationship now i cuddle with my daughter.