I'm very disappointed in this ap. I get likes from India and Venezuela, California and Florida when I limited my search to 100 miles from Appleton! I have 18 yr olds liking me when I specified women over 60. Most of the entries herein are listed as 42 or 43. If you are just skimming ages like I am, you may not see that they're really 27, 52, 64, etc. I wish there were more ways to search -- like by age, gender (I don't want to see men), sexuality (gay, lesbian, trans, straight...). Sometimes I can't tell who the poster is looking for -- a man or a woman. I've written introductory notes to about 15 women. Only 1 has responded. Can't even return note saying "not interested"? Like I said, I'm disappointed!

It's the internet and an international free site.

You can't limit who looks at your profile.

You can't "force" people to reply to your mail. No reply IS a reply.

You can however limit your search area.

And you can filter who mails you.