i'll like to share part of your story

Hello there lady

Hello let share little about ourselves and see where it leads

A question...who are you you talking to?

I have been a widow for a few months, trying this dating site, having not much luck, how do people meet now in this COVID19 times?

I was a widow for the first time at age 21, had a toddler, and an infant to raise. It was hard, but I had friends to help in the time of need.

I feel like a widow for many years now ...
but can say I am over it ... and willing to find love again ... but on my terms... I am a *itch sometimes an more then likely hard to live with ...

going to take that perfect man as I see ... to unlock & melt my heart again...
lots of hoops he has to jump through to lmao

Agree totally notlooking. Sorry, to hear about your losses also. I'm interested to know whether your mourning experience was same or different for both your losses. Only if you're okay with sharing of course. Nice of you to offer Rick some valuable guidance to help him along his new path.
You're one good egg.

Hi Arty

Urm,if it can help anyone...sure!
They were two different men and two different times. The first husband I lost, we were both 30, he was in a car crash, he survived but was put in a coma because of his serious head injury. I had extreme pressure from his family, who flew down, to turn off life support, I was 7 months pregnant and that meant our planned child would lose her father. We had planned for 4 children also.
That grief was unbearable because we lost our future together and our daughter never met him. But thankfully I had videos of him that she now has. In one he sings a song called "Father's daughter". A beautiful song she can cherish.
I would wake up each day for a very long time, see him not next to me and remember all over again, the grief was the deepest, darkest thing I have ever been through. It is a very desperate and lonely place, where you feel like you are loosing your sanity and faith.

I met my other husband on Mingle in the Poetry Section 2012. I would prefer to keep private about his passing.

Yes the grief was different, but the same. The second death was 2018, I handled it differently. Wrote a ton of poetry which helped and still helps. But the thing that helps the most is both of them have come to me in dreams and I believe in the afterlife. My second husband had a Near Death experience where he told me he felt love, peace and comfort.
I hope this helps people. You do get better, it really is like the ocean, waves of grief hit you continually, eventually they abate and get slower, till you realize you can actually stand and you are not going to drown.

I would like to express my deep admiration and respect for every beautiful soul that has lost a loved one.
From deep of my heart I send you my support and my warm thoughts, and blessings to you on your journey of life...

I have been a widow for nearly 5 years, so my thoughts are with all on M2 who have lost a loved one

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