i have to go to court yesterday everything was alright until I can home
and got the third degree from my girlfriend about what went on so i told
her and now we are not talking WHAT do I do ?

Well your post really doesnt explain...why did she get mad?

I had a girlfriend who got pissed everytime I had to deal with my ex,so
thats why I was concerned

First thing to do is???????? "TALK" to her, sweetly, nicely,

and tell her, that you don't understand why she is upset with you????

Then, try very hard to listen to what her problem is with YOU, and then
try to answer, why, or how, she is thinking (i-hope)
wrongly in what really happen in court and to hear your side before
getting upset again?

PLEASE, IS A GOOD WORD TO USE ON HER, AND-----IM SORRY!
IT WORKS PRETTY GOOD TO.lol GOOD-LUCK???

Yesterday you were nervous because you were going to court to setlle
your divorce...while your g/f was at home waiting for you, adn today you
need help with your g/f.

That opens up a new can of whoop***. Prepare yourself, because the
ladies will must definitely not like what they read.

Leads me to beleive that CHUCKEE was right - you need some growing up to
do!

Your divorcing one while having another.....bad, really bad. I am not
even going to dwell with this one. Ladies, he's all yours!

BETTER WATCH-OUT IZZY? YOU SAID THAT NAME???

YOU SAID, CHUCKEE, SHE JUST MIGHT START LIKING YOU AFTER ALL?

BUT, OF COURSE I ALWAYS AGREE WITH CHUCKEE, EVEN IF SH IS WRONG! LOL.

Ok honey I was nice yesterday but WTF how long have you been with the
current fling and how long have you been seperated. First off finalize
your shit before you bring someone else in the picture. she's probably
pissed because a you seen the ex and she's insecure in your relationship
because you started f-cking her before the other was done. If you'll
cheat with you'll cheat on. and baby as long as you gotta piece of paper
your cheating. and i will give this one to chickee tou need to act your
age and get your shit together

Heh....seems like you just can't keep your own ass outta trouble
Tall...now lemme ask ya somethin..you're goin through a divorce, you got
a girlfriend..what the hell ya doin here then??Don't ya think ya got
enough problems now??? BEFORE YOU EVER HOOKED UP WITH ANYONE YOU SHOULDA
GOT THE DIVORCE FIRST!!! Finish a relationship completely before you
move on to the next one, get your head outta your ass man, all this
stuff your doin is just askin for trouble, and from the sounds of
it..you got what you asked for...grow up dude

LMAO, talking about tooooooo many irons in the fire your screwed!! At
least finish one relantionship before jumping back in the fire ya know
that stuff burns

Hummm burn baby burn

Have fun hope you live close to water so you can go cool off once in a
while.

ROFLMAO

what is they call that "from the frying pn into the fire" i think. you
just jumped baby. hope you like hell cause your there. and sorry but you
asked for it

Tall, two words for ya, GROW UP!

WELL, THAT SOUNDS EASY, BUT I KEEP TRYING TO GROW-UP TO YOU

BUT------I STILL CAN'T REACH-YA???? loll

Hey, one thing. Before jumping back into the fire..Leave yourself some
time to "heal" and think of what has happened. Learn from the
experience. Oh when I same some time - I don;t mean a week or a
month.... rebounding is hell also. So go out make new friends and get
your head on straight before your seek new relationships.

Hey, I told you you were in for some rough waters. Thes women can be
your worst nightmare....as they can be your best advisors.

Yeah, what he said.

gotta go with th girls here dude...
finish it up before you move on,,,
mine is sooooooo out of my book....
But "IAM4" hit on that you needs to be sweet to her,,,feelings are
hurt,as she may feel threatened by your ex,,,
why,if she wants to know so much about it,didn't she go to court with
you?
at least to offer you her support,or to piss off yer ex???

Its like this, you can't possibly enter a new relationship knowing what
it is you want out of it or out of yourself, when your dealing with the
hurt of losing someone else. It doesn't matter if ya'll ended ugly,
claiming to hate each other, or if you walked away really hurt and
wishing you had her near you. The fact is you're on the rebound and
THATS NOT HEALTHY for your new relationship, or fair to either of you.
It sounds to me that you really need to take some time for yourself, and
learn to stand ALONE!!! NO MOM, NO FRIENDS, NO JUST SAY HI, NO EX'S,
NOBODY!!! Just little 'ol YOU!!! You might find that you really do
like yourself and deserve better than how you've been treating
YOURSELF!!!

duhhhh micheal he wasn't divorced yet how do you think that would have
looked to the judge. oh by the way i'm not rid of the ex yet but here's
the newer improved model. at least he wassmart about that if he would
taken her he'd would have looked like the asshole he seems to be acting
like right now. I love ya darling but this shit was just plain stupid.

well miss ice, duhhh to you too..
she could have sat in th third row back in th gallery toooooo?
who ever said it was a divorce case anyway?


tallandtttanned" has not said one way nor the other...

ahhhhhh but he did yesterday. and she would not have been content to sit
back 3 rows she feels her territory is being threatened. and don't be
mean to me i waited and you stood me up

Yesterday he posted that he was nervous because he had to go to court
from setllement proceedings.

C'mon Mike, you know better than to just jump in without the facts!!!!
Jeeeeez, now tell her you're sorry and kiss and make up ya big meanie!!!
LOL