Topic: Blue Christmas
babyone's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:19 AM
Hi Everyone,
I am new here and I am in a big funk right now.
Sorry to be a downer but tis the way it is.
Please help!!!
Wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Jill298's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:20 AM
Welcome to JSH :)
So do tell... what is causing your "funk"?

babyone's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:21 AM
oh, just the lovely starting over and ______ at this point in my life !!!!

Sexyklp4U's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:21 AM
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

sorry to hear, it will get better for ya..:smile:

Jill298's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:24 AM

oh, just the lovely starting over and ______ at this point in my life !!!!
Well the good news is you have come to the right place :) Most of us have either been there or are there right now.
The best thing about starting is over, is you don't have to make the same mistakes again.

soffit's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:26 AM
IKNOW THAT FUNKY FEELING WELL! It gets better. Try rum!
laugh :wink: drinker smokin flowerforyou

babyone's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:28 AM
Thanks! I know.....
I am going to be ok .Just having a hard time right now.I will be OK sooner or later ;-)

oldsage's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:29 AM
babyone, welcome to the family.
Totally understand the "funk."
Need to chat, you found the right place.

elifn52's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:30 AM
AFTER THE HOLIDAYSdrinker YOUR MOOD WILL CHANGE & THEN WATCH OUT IN 2008flowerforyouYOU`LL HAVE A SKIP IN YOUR STEP:wink:

Jill298's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:33 AM
Keep your head up baby :)
Never ever forget to love yourself and remind yourself about the wonderful things about you.
Sometimes during a funk, its so easy to forget the good things that make you, you.

1829's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:39 AM
Starting over can be one of the most difficult things to do... but in general, you will feel much better in the long run. The fear of starting over keeps many people in relationships FAR too long, sometimes well after they are safe to be in.

Consider yourself lucky this holiday season. Take a trip to your local soup kitchen. It always makes me put everything into perspective.

Jill298's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:40 AM

Starting over can be one of the most difficult things to do... but in general, you will feel much better in the long run. The fear of starting over keeps many people in relationships FAR too long, sometimes well after they are safe to be in.

Consider yourself lucky this holiday season. Take a trip to your local soup kitchen. It always makes me put everything into perspective.
Excellent point...

JoeKur's photo
Sun 12/23/07 07:44 AM


Starting over can be one of the most difficult things to do... but in general, you will feel much better in the long run. The fear of starting over keeps many people in relationships FAR too long, sometimes well after they are safe to be in.

Consider yourself lucky this holiday season. Take a trip to your local soup kitchen. It always makes me put everything into perspective.
Excellent point...

AMEN! that is a great thing to do in a situation like this, in SO many ways!

upforgrabs2007's photo
Sun 12/23/07 09:29 AM

Hi Everyone,
I am new here and I am in a big funk right now.
Sorry to be a downer but tis the way it is.
Please help!!!
Wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


Babyone, we have so much in common right now hun it's not funny! I'm driving down the road listening to the Holiday music and I'm wondering why I can't get in the swing of things. 35, single, father of three full time and alone. I think some people are cut out to be alone, others need to have someone to hold. Me for one fall into the second bracket.


upforgrabs2007's photo
Sun 12/23/07 09:33 AM

IKNOW THAT FUNKY FEELING WELL! It gets better. Try rum!
laugh :wink: drinker smokin flowerforyou


You know this is so true! For some strange reason Captain Morgan has been screaming from the kitchen cubbord recently! And me being a nice guy I keep letting him out.

no photo
Sun 12/23/07 09:33 AM
:heart: bigsmile flowerforyou :wink: drinker :heart:
Welcome here,,,,YOU have made it to the NETS most
wanted site,,,and WE WELCOME YOU OUR NEW "FRIEND"

My Name is T and I'll be glad to show you around and make this place "YOUR" place,,COOL?

I believe you will like to visit the first floor here,

On the first floor you will find SINGLES for the takin,,,lol
if YOU are into LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS???

If you are looking for discreet relationships I would say the
2ND floor might be a little better, as it has a very BIG mix of single folks..

NOW, if your wanting to drink and PARTY, the 3RD floor might be where we will find YOU later,,?,,LOL

If you are looking for the fun,,,,REALLY FUN PEOPLE,,??
THEN, it would have to be OUR 4TH FLOOR!!!
There my new friend,,,,is EVERYTHING a NEWBE would want or NEED!
LOVE,,,HAPPINESS, PHONE NUMBERS,,LOL,,,
SEX,,,,MASSAGE,,,,AND,,,,,,,,,,ALL THE TOYS- in life!!!!!

SOUNDS COOL SO FAR HUH???????


NOW,,,THERE IS ONE SMALL PROBLEM,THOUGH??????























OUR ELEVATOR, IS "NOT" WORKING RIGHT NOW!!!




















SORRY!!! But you have had your "FIRST" LOL ON THIS
SITE!!!!














Have fun,,,,lol, and "FRIENDS JUST HAPPEN HERE"!!!


And moments STOPPED in life,(like this one).... STILLS lets call them, happen here like pictures in YOUR mind... All the time.....lol :heart: flowerforyou drinker bigsmile :wink:

RealtyLady's photo
Sun 12/23/07 09:36 AM
Welcome, Babyoneflowerforyou

Hang in there, it will get better:smile:

Lotsa great people on this site.....many friends to make!!!

Here's to a New Yeardrinker drinker drinker

dcrdnk's photo
Sun 12/23/07 09:41 AM
Yep , what RL said drinker drinker flowerforyou flowerforyou

This place has away of makin' forget the FUNK. bigsmile


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