Topic: need to know
RICKG1961's photo
Sun 12/23/07 05:05 AM
if you meet someone and on the 2st date
she wanted to have sex every night don't
get me wrong it's awesome. but i'm looking
for more then sex like a relationship. i
really don't thank she is in to that i thank
she just want to be friend's with sex.what would you do not
say any thing and have all the sex you want
or till her you r looking for some thing more ?
i don't want to lose her. so what do i do...

oldsage's photo
Sun 12/23/07 05:08 AM
You can talk to her.
Enjoy what it is & see where it goes.
Just remember you have doubts from the start,
so don't lose your heart.
Decisions are as much yours as hers.

johncarl's photo
Sun 12/23/07 05:09 AM
i would tell her straight out and not hold back.i wish i had this problemlaugh laugh laugh .you must be open and honest from the get go or it will be nothing but trouble.

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 12/23/07 05:14 AM
Just tell her you wish to be friends, and that you wish for more than a sexual relationship. Be upfront and honest. :smile:

no photo
Sun 12/23/07 05:55 AM
woah who flipped the script here? huh

lol

every woman has some or many endearing differences. one might think he has to "adapt" to her style to get along with her and see it as a chore... but i see it as an adventure.

this woman seems like she wants a FWB relationship, but you want more. to get what you want, first give her what she wants and more. the best way to a hungry man's heart is through his stomach, and the best way to get to this horny woman's heart is through the sheets. it sounds as though you will have to show her the best time she's ever had in bed and she'll know you're a keeper.

take it or leave it and i wish you the best of luck

Jess642's photo
Sun 12/23/07 05:59 AM
Does there need to be a script?

Says who.

Tell her straight. Just what you said here.

Give her the space to think about it, and tell you what she wants, then decide if it fits, what you are requiring.

no photo
Sun 12/23/07 06:06 AM

Does there need to be a script?

it's called a "joke"

:wink:

bttrflyv2's photo
Sun 12/23/07 06:12 AM
honesty first...be honest with her ...tell her the sex is good but you want more than sex in a relationship...you have to be honest and follow your heart at the same time it could be a lil tricky but you have to talk to her if not it will be you in the end that gets hurt because you will be putting your heart into something that might not work out...wishing you the best.....

stevenpwis's photo
Sun 12/23/07 06:55 AM
if you don't want to lose her, do her

stevenpwis's photo
Sun 12/23/07 06:56 AM
just kidding, just tell her what you want, maybe she thinks that's what you want, so that's what she pretends she wants