I will be rambling my thoughts in this post, read at your own risk!
Hi, I have been here for 3 days, and now I feel only two things
1) Shave my head and become a monk and go to meditate in the himalayas while never having thoughts of women again
2) Write a program to make a bot that sends troll responses to all those fake business profiles trying to recruit me for a male escort position

I have never dated anyone in this life of mine (Am I too late now to try?) and I was surprised that online dating is so easy here with the number of matches I am receiving. I was not more wrong. all fakes. Guess this is just silly thing people do to pass time and new kind of prank and counter prank. Losing hope in this society. Not sure if I should play along or wait patiently to have some exposure.
Seriously, how difficult is it to be able to talk to someone of opposite sex without paying up?

Okay.

Well, I decided to go for half of option 1. I shaved my head and will never think of women, but I decided not to become a monk.
I am leaving my profile here and will come online for 5 secs everyday so that it wastes time of fakes that message me first.

Thank you for replying kind stranger. I feel happy.

Madhur,

To me, your two things in 2 condensed points (1) and (2) are actually not 2 things, there are indeed many many many things in 2 points.

I would just break down the points clearly, step and step, perhaps:

(1) shave my head
(2) become a monk
(3) go to meditate ....etc

Putting so many things in 1 single step may make things very confusing, what do you think?


Even going step by step, points (1), (2), (3) may still not lead you to "never having thoughts of women again"

Just be happy thinking about women and eventually enjoy the stay with one of them.

Cheers

Haha that is true
It is only forums that have real people who are even willing to raise valid points Thank you for taking your time to reply to my rambling when you could have just moved on. I appreciate that.
As per your point of putting to many things in one part, I think I was confused myself and a bit angry that no one wants to even talk without establishing a business transaction.
Regarding the thoughts of never thinking about women, I think it would some day be possible if my thoughts are clean. Probably it will be able to control my harmones as well. I am not too sure though.
As per finding the right woman, I think I am a unicorn, so I will have better chance of finding and marrying another unicorn

You are very welcome, Madhur! You know what you want and can write a program to make a bot, you are not confused at all, maybe just a little frustrated by the bad experience in last 3 days. Sometimes it may take more than 3 days to accomplish a task, at least for me. I know, not the most desirable, isn't it?
True enough, the male hormones play the main role in your wonderful thoughts about women. You do not want to manipulate your hormone production either.
Human brain is very complex for humans to fully comprehend!
Coupled friends always mention about the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" written by John Gray which helps them better understand perspectives from their partners. Sometimes if we cannot change other peoples' minds, it would be happier just to appreciate the differences among us.
Enjoy your search for another unicorn

Thank you for your words of advice filled with wisdom I think I would not have received these wise words easily from anyone in my real life. I should read that book after waking up tommorow. Thank you

I am learning a lot from your wisdom too, Madhur!
The book is a book, good reference if applicable to you but never black and white
Have a great weekend

RANDOM THOUGHTS:

Fake and phoney **** just sometimes makes me want to spin out!

Esp in music, that's why I can't stand maggots like Kid Rock but he's far from the only one.

Life is too short, we all have our rights to be ourselves, including maggots

That's correct and I have the right to wish for 5 minutes in a small room with said maggot.

You actually do indeed. I am sure you will follow Dr. Bonnie Henry's advice: be calm, be kind and be safe with the maggot though.

Have a great time with the little one, blessings