Topic: Is it ok to SAY NO.?
beingmyself62's photo
Wed 06/24/20 05:48 AM
Do you have people contacting you that you do not seek or even want contact from... I sure do daily.. it's not the fact they contact... its the falsehood within the contact.. that is really annoying part.

delightfulillusion's photo
Wed 06/24/20 05:51 AM
Yes, of course. I have found a wonderful tool.....the ‘delete’ button. The block button is also your best friend happy

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 06/24/20 05:59 AM

Yes, of course. I have found a wonderful tool.....the ‘delete’ button. The block button is also your best friend happy



The "Report" button is cool, too :thumbsup:

ReginaLinGa's photo
Wed 06/24/20 06:03 AM
Fully agree with the above statements - delete or block are your friends. Heck hon, 99.9% of the emails I get on here and other dating sites are from Catfish. They aren't even slick about it. Kind of sad, but at least the Community here is great. It is what has me sticking around.

Rock's photo
Wed 06/24/20 06:04 AM
Being my normal, charming self,
keeps most from making a second appearance
in my inbox.

no photo
Wed 06/24/20 02:22 PM
NO!!! ......wait

NotPay4Play's photo
Wed 06/24/20 03:01 PM
Edited by NotPay4Play on Wed 06/24/20 03:01 PM
And setting up your filters of "who can message you" helps a lot also.

mzrosie's photo
Wed 06/24/20 04:20 PM
Topic: Is it ok to SAY NO.?

It is not only ok, sometimes it is necessary.

.. or just ignore them, no reply means not interested.

As Delightful already said above, BLOCK is your best friend.

Best wishes happy drinker


no photo
Wed 06/24/20 04:33 PM
Just today, a guy read my profile and sent me a message. His profile said, don't bother to write me if you are over 35. I thought, why write to me me when I'm way over 35? My age is on my profile.

Poetrywriter's photo
Wed 06/24/20 07:22 PM
I get those kind of unwanted messages all the time. Sometimes I will just play with their head. They will ask stupid questions like are you married, do you have kids, why are you on this site when those facts are mentioned in my profile. So I will send them an answer back and just say "When you have no messages in your inbox, those are from me." Let them scratch their heads on that one. laugh

Cardell's photo
Thu 06/25/20 07:35 AM
of course, you know what you are looking for and you don't need to settle so you spare someone's feelings