To be loved is every ones right ! When ur man or woman tries to change you, evaluate urself if it is making you for a better. Your partners have to accept you for who you are ! Enjoy your relationship and love and be contented

it alright to forgive , its questionable to compromise

Ooookaaay, thanks for the insight.

Personally, I think most people spend too much time on this, and IME/IMO it tends to be overinflated.
They may know their worth, but they don't know the market, their competitors, or their demographics.


I disagree.
IMO it's everyone's right to pursue it, but not to receive it.


That's easy to say, but extremely difficult to do.
For one thing people have an implicit bias against change.
Plus, no one is purely objective.

Also, and IMO extremely important, different value systems.
What exactly is "better?" What's the hierarchy of it?
Everything you do there are benefits, costs, risks, and consequences.

Are you under the impression there is a means of getting everything right and good? Perfection?
How exactly and specifically do you "evaluate urself?" Do you put more weight on immediate, short term, medium, or long term?
What are you willing to sacrifice in order to avoid what level of change?
Which do you value more, or in what ratio: emotional, mental, tangible, social, individual, or group (and which group) benefits?


No, they don't.
No one "has" to accept you.
Some will, some won't.
Some can learn to, others will refuse to.

Other than that, it's a bad statement.
If partners "have" to accept each other, then the person that doesn't want to change "has" to accept the partner that want's to change them.
Is that part of the self evaluation? "Hmmm...maybe this relationship is based on power dynamics drama and conflict. My dominance over them in refusing to change vs. their ability to control me to change."


How? You haven't really offered anything meaningful to do so.

I know only that I'm as useless as WE ALL ARE