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Topic: Sex on first date
patpat Joined Sun 01/19/20 Posts: 3	Tue 07/07/20 11:31 PM
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Samuel Joined Tue 07/07/20 Posts: 1	Tue 07/07/20 11:57 PM
Does sex on first date make the Lady cheap Some men continue to believe that women should be shamed and held to a different standard than men when it comes to sexual behaviour . .. what do you believe ???

oby Joined Wed 07/08/20 Posts: 4	Wed 07/08/20 12:33 AM
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Dev933 Joined Sat 02/08/20 Posts: 1	Wed 07/08/20 12:34 AM
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Veer Joined Mon 06/29/20 Posts: 1	Wed 07/08/20 04:10 AM
yes it's possible

Ask me Joined Sat 12/28/19 Posts: 2	Wed 07/08/20 04:52 AM
No cheaper then the man that is accepting it~~ yes

Fonz Joined Mon 06/29/20 Posts: 3	Thu 07/09/20 04:36 AM
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ronald Joined Thu 07/09/20 Posts: 1	Thu 07/09/20 04:59 AM
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notbeold Joined Sat 06/01/13 Posts: 2406	Thu 07/09/20 05:00 AM
I had a first date that lasted several days and nights, and we didn't do anything in a hurry, so there was 'waiting' time involved, but we were together the whole time. Nothing was cheapened by it.

jackie177 Joined Sat 08/05/17 Posts: 1	Thu 07/09/20 10:58 AM
no

Sabin Magar Joined Sat 07/04/20 Posts: 1	Thu 07/09/20 11:26 AM
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Dagenham male 4 naughty fun Joined Mon 07/06/20 Posts: 1	Thu 07/09/20 03:10 PM
No it doesn't :-)

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 07/09/20 03:33 PM
Which timeline are we in?

Fred Scott Lucas Joined Tue 04/14/20 Posts: 3	Thu 07/09/20 04:33 PM
NO it doesn't

IF U MESSAGE W/NO PIC I AM BLOCKING Joined Thu 10/31/19 Posts: 40	Thu 07/09/20 05:33 PM
Does sex on first date make the Lady cheap Some men continue to believe that women should be shamed and held to a different standard than men when it comes to sexual behaviour . .. what do you believe ??? I am totally in disagreement with the double standard. Cause check this out, we are all grown adults here so my words might seem a little harsh but hey like I said we are adults, we know wtf sex is and why people do it. Every living thing on this planet has sex. We are the only creatures that associate sex with love when in fact it has absolutely nothing to do with love. Some people may think otherwise but it is how we reproduce. How every critter on this planet does it. In my opinion if a female choses to have sex with whomever she choses and at whatever time she elects as long as she maintains her equipment (clean of smell and debris) and if she has a partner full time that he or she is made aware and agreement is met then it is perfectly fine. Quite some time back I didnt feel this way. I too associated sex with love. It is not. I could go on and on about this but thats not the point I am making about love but point is men should not degrade a female for doing wth ever she damn well pleases just as us men do. Granted if you have a partner of commitment then you are obligated to acknowledge their thoughts and honor them if you do truly love your partner. Double standard was put into effect by society.

Unknow Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 1861	Fri 07/10/20 02:20 AM Edited by Unknow on Fri 07/10/20 02:24 AM
We associate sex with love because we CAN -and SHOULD because we CAN. LOVE truly means having the best interest of all possibly involved at heart -and it should /we should be certain that it does/ supersede our desires. It is actually part of how we can become more fit to survive and thrive -that being by conscious decision. What animals CAN think "Uhhh.... we'd better not"? -or have as much reason to?