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Topic: her birthday
stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:10 AM
Well, tonight I am taking Kelly on a sleigh ride for her birthday, I am cooking her dinner afterwards. After a romantic night like this I am hoping for a first kiss from her, we have been together for a month and a half, this game is getting pretty old.

pandaxxx's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:14 AM
wait youre doing all that and she hasnt kissed you yet(month and a half in?)

thattss yr problem

pennyg281's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:14 AM


:smile: Sounds like a great plan. Good Luck flowerforyou

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:17 AM

wait youre doing all that and she hasnt kissed you yet(month and a half in?)




I'm a little confused myself

pennyg281's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:20 AM


wait youre doing all that and she hasnt kissed you yet(month and a half in?)




I'm a little confused myself



Has she said anything to you about kissing? The last guy i dates was gremaphibic, didn't like to kiss, but loved to hug and snuggle. Some people don't like kissing, maybe she's one one them.

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:23 AM
She was telling me a story about her past, by the way, she is 26 and a virgin, which i have posted in the past. She told me that people in her school used to pick on her and say she was the ugliest person in the world, she has very low self esteem because of it. I don't know myself what she looked like in school, but she is amazing now. She did tell me she looks a lot different now. She told me she has trust issues with people. Does anyone have any suggestions for me?

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:24 AM
we do hug and cuddle, but I want more than that

pennyg281's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:33 AM

we do hug and cuddle, but I want more than that


I definately understand that. I did 2. The only advice I can offer is to let her know at the end of the night that you'd really like to kiss her. Could be that she's never been kissed, and is shy about it.

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:35 AM


we do hug and cuddle, but I want more than that


Could be that she's never been kissed, and is shy about it.


That's the thought that I get as well

andreajayne's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:37 AM
if her esteem is that low, she may be waiting for you to make the first move. I think it would be totally romantic during the sleigh ride, to just kiss her forehead while you have your arm around her. ease her into the more physical side of the relationship.

I hope you guys have a great time, I'm jealous lol!

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:40 AM
Edited by stevenpwis on Fri 12/21/07 06:41 AM
I have tried the first move, she just puts her face into my chest. Oh believe me, I am going to give her a kiss on the cheek on the sleigh ride.

andreajayne's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:43 AM
when she puts her head down, lift her head and just look into her eyes, her eyes will tell you what she really wants.

I agree with penny that she is probably super shy!

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 06:51 AM
i agree too

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:00 AM
I am so crazy about this girl

andreajayne's photo
Fri 12/21/07 01:52 PM
i can tell, it's so sweet what you are doing for her too! I hope you guys have a blast tonight!

FisitMan's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:12 PM
bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile Have you checked your breath? bigsmile

andreajayne's photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:16 PM
be nice!



tell us how it went when you get home!

no photo
Fri 12/21/07 07:54 PM
u cant "earn" a kiss by giving her stuff!

just build sexual tension to the max, dude

it'll happen naturally if you do

you'll both feel that undeniable urge

and then...

smoochy smoochy! smooched

Drew07_2's photo
Fri 12/21/07 09:16 PM
From what you've said, it sounds like you are doing the right things. That you are so willing to put yourself out there for her speaks louder than anything you can (or will) say. Good luck and enjoy. Don't miss the moments, trapped in expectation.

-Drew

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 12/22/07 07:04 AM
Steven! What happened? How did it go?

:smile: M

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