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Well, you never made a commitment to either of them right? You had every right to talk to as many people as you wanted. We ALL know more conversations lead to dead ends than not, so until something becomes something it's only natural to keep as many options open as possible. Your conscience speaks to your character.
The right thing to do would be to decide not who really likes you, but who YOU really like. Once you make a commitment to one, break it off with the other. There's no way to do it without feeling bad, but trust me, if you let the situation go on too long you're certain to lose both and be back to square one. It's not the worst problem in the world to have, but I don't envy you. Think it over and make the best decision possible. Good luck! |
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start acting really really REALLY nice, forward, awkward, and clingy to both of them. act as if you would die without their attention. act really really desperate. don't overdramaticize this because you want it to be convincingly real. both of them will get bored with you really quickly. trust me, it'll work. Then again this might happen if you do the above, they might both want to marry you. So it's a tightrope you walking. As I stated before you have to be honest with the ladies and hope for the best. they wont wanna marry him if he sounds desperate. oh, and be sure to write really desperate sounding love letters and poems to the one you dont want sticking around... oh, and it'll help if those poems were actually kinda bad and unoriginal lol |
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you could have just told me instead of asking about it in a forum!
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start acting really really REALLY nice, forward, awkward, and clingy to both of them. act as if you would die without their attention. act really really desperate. don't overdramaticize this because you want it to be convincingly real. both of them will get bored with you really quickly. trust me, it'll work. Then again this might happen if you do the above, they might both want to marry you. So it's a tightrope you walking. As I stated before you have to be honest with the ladies and hope for the best. they wont wanna marry him if he sounds desperate. oh, and be sure to write really desperate sounding love letters and poems to the one you dont want sticking around... oh, and it'll help if those poems were actually kinda bad and unoriginal lol One of them keeps begging me to write a poem about her....so that wont' work my friend |
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start acting really really REALLY nice, forward, awkward, and clingy to both of them. act as if you would die without their attention. act really really desperate. don't overdramaticize this because you want it to be convincingly real. both of them will get bored with you really quickly. trust me, it'll work. Then again this might happen if you do the above, they might both want to marry you. So it's a tightrope you walking. As I stated before you have to be honest with the ladies and hope for the best. they wont wanna marry him if he sounds desperate. oh, and be sure to write really desperate sounding love letters and poems to the one you dont want sticking around... oh, and it'll help if those poems were actually kinda bad and unoriginal lol yeah cause what he said is SOOOO much better then just telling the girls the truth! by the way have you meant either of them yet off line? |
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Well the one who's begging for the poem sounds a bit over the edge to me. If you're not a fan of rabits being boiled on your stove ala 'Fatal Attraction' then I'd probably go with the other one.
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I don't know what to do
Change your name and move to Yellowknife or Whitehorse, Canada. |
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You have to make a choice and try to let one down as easily as possible. Be honest with them both. If you lie or make up an excuse to the one you don't choose to be with, it would be extremely rude, possibly hurt her even more in the end, and might find out the truth anyway. Tell the one you let down how "someone else" is more compatible but make sure to tell her how wonderful you think she is as well and how she will find someone better suited for her.
Yes, someone will get hurt. But if you are honest, it will hurt them much less in the long run. Be careful making your decision and good luck. |
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You have to make a choice and try to let one down as easily as possible. Be honest with them both. If you lie or make up an excuse to the one you don't choose to be with, it would be extremely rude, possibly hurt her even more in the end, and might find out the truth anyway. Tell the one you let down how "someone else" is more compatible but make sure to tell her how wonderful you think she is as well and how she will find someone better suited for her. Yes, someone will get hurt. But if you are honest, it will hurt them much less in the long run. Be careful making your decision and good luck. |
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I don't know what to do
Change your name and move to Yellowknife or Whitehorse, Canada. I've been to Yellowknife it's the capital of the Northwest Territories. Nope He'll have go to Iqaluit or Grise Fjord Nunavut Canada. |
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oh man, you're in a quite a sticky situation.
Tactful honesty is the best policy. |
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I've been to Yellowknife it's the capital of the Northwest Territories. Nope He'll have go to Iqaluit or Grise Fjord Nunavut Canada. |
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start acting really really REALLY nice, forward, awkward, and clingy to both of them. act as if you would die without their attention. act really really desperate. don't overdramaticize this because you want it to be convincingly real. both of them will get bored with you really quickly. trust me, it'll work. Then again this might happen if you do the above, they might both want to marry you. So it's a tightrope you walking. As I stated before you have to be honest with the ladies and hope for the best. they wont wanna marry him if he sounds desperate. oh, and be sure to write really desperate sounding love letters and poems to the one you dont want sticking around... oh, and it'll help if those poems were actually kinda bad and unoriginal lol One of them keeps begging me to write a poem about her....so that wont' work my friend do everything they tell u to do supplicate and show that u are a beta male |
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Honestly Bro coming out here to ask about you're dilema tells me two things about you.1. You like to "play" and get attention and 2. You like to stroke you're ego as I can see through you're bull. Are you a man Bro? Try to act like one by first being honest and 2.Playing games with people. Ask youreself this. Would you like being led on by some tool. Walla!! Then try to stop acting like one...
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Edited by
fortsmithman
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Thu 12/20/07 11:43 PM
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I've been to Yellowknife it's the capital of the Northwest Territories. Nope He'll have go to Iqaluit or Grise Fjord Nunavut Canada. There's no e in Sachs Harbour. Banks island isn't the territory name that it's in. It's in the Northwest Territories. |
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glad i aint you
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I would be honest with both of them. Who knows they maybe talking to another person as well...I say honesty is the best policy. Way to go MzKat !!! Good Answer |
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Lovin that shrek pic
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sheeit, faint and fall in it man, you in big trouble!!!
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