tall i told you play nice..... see what you get when you take the bait.
you did ask for opinions and you got them. some you didn't like so open
wide and swallow the medicine baby

Chuckee, he called you a bitch because u are a bitch. you get what
you deal.

Ramble, if he were in the right and she is intimidating like ya'll say,
I WOULD be the one to take to support him ya dork. I just call it like
I see it. What I see here is a boy who needs to become a man ASAP or
lay down and expect to be scared or nervous for the rest of his life.

Well, if she's controlling, be glad to get her out of your life.
It seems you hve not discussed this with an attorney. You must have had
enough time to find one and prepare for this. I believe she has... and
your nervousness is that. YOU HAVE NOT PREPARED YOURSELF!!! Bad! And now
you fear the consequences of not preparing.
Sorry but I doubt you'll find the asperin you seek here. It must come
from within yourself to confront it.

i have all the paper work from my lawyer

GOD, CHUCKEE, YOU BRING OUT THE MAN IN "ALL OF US".

WOW, SUCH, BIG, IDEAS, I LIKE THAT!!!!!!

LOL

why is court intimidating... lets see. the judge is dressed in black,
they sit in a elevated position, They have total control over not only
your behavior but also your life, they speak legalese, Usually they have
an armed bailiff, .... what did i miss??? Doesent sound like a very
friendly place to me.

best i can tell you go in shut-up let your attorney do all the talking
be seen not heard and look at the judge period not her or her attorney.

oh and the courts are always biased against men.
well i have to go to court now, have a good one all. ( Im the man in
black so ill be fine)

Ramble, be quiet, you would be intimidated by peter pans shadow. Jeez,
I'm so in the mood for your crap today, so if you feel like dishin, come
on then. If not, oh well. But be warned, don't come to this bar-b-que
unarmed little man. LOL!!!!!!!!!!

.....IN THE END A DIORCE IS ALMOST ALWAYS because of mistakes made by
both parties......

Remeber one thing. The judge is impartial and will do justice. But he
must see all sides of this marriage - like I have tried -and then and
only then will he sent down the hammer. It may be against you or it may
be for you.

Just make sure that you are heard.

i have alot of paper work to take with me chuckee that have all the
seperation shit on it I think that is all i need right

should be hon let your lawyer deal with it

WHOOP-THERE-IT-IS
WHOOP-THERE-IT-IS

CHUCKEE YA CRACK-ME-DA-FK-UP LOL

PETER PANS SHADOW???? LMAO

OHH, OK, "WHAT SHE SAID, SO THEIR!!!!!!LMFAO

yes, like txs said, you are only showing up, he's already looked over
the divorce agreement and will now just conform both paries agree to
whats in the paperwork. Tie up some lose ends and sign the decree.
There's nothing to worry about. Just keep your mouth zipped if you get
frustrated, don't ague with anyone and by all means, if you have to make
a statement or ask a question, make your point or ask politely. Whoever
the judge is male or female, they are just like us. k. No worries,
smile, it will all be over soon.

Sorry, I've only seen your side.... my mistake. but still. If what you
say is true, make sure that the judge hears it.

Marriage counsoling....How you ever talked about this with your soon to
be ex?

If there is no communication between partners there is not
relationship.... or was this a one way realtionship.

i am sorry for before okay thanks chuckee

Oh, and your lawyer not showing up? Whats that about? It must be a
simple cut and dry like txs said. Don't worry, don't be scared, be an
adult and never let anyone intimidate you. We're all just people in
this world. K.

bleh..screw it ..I'm goin back to bed