Topic: Would you ?
RICKG1961's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:32 AM
meet your girlfriends' family for the frist time on
christmas day? or would you wait?i mysafe would like
to wait until after ward's.

no photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:32 AM
I don't see any reason why not, but that's just me. I guess it's whatever you feel comfortable with. flowerforyou

eskimo_nell's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:35 AM
meet them christmas is a happy day so they'll be in a good mood and may like you more! laugh laugh laugh


ecbouton's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:39 AM
i think you should do whatever will be more comfortable for you. if you meet them and your not ready for it, they may come away thinking your too quiet or uptight. if you meet them when your comfortable the image you give off will be more approachable and they might get a better feel for you, which just allows them to make a better judgement. people say that first impressions are everything, if your not comfortable they might be able to tell.

RICKG1961's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:46 AM

i think you should do whatever will be more comfortable for you. if you meet them and your not ready for it, they may come away thinking your too quiet or uptight. if you meet them when your comfortable the image you give off will be more approachable and they might get a better feel for you, which just allows them to make a better judgement. people say that first impressions are everything, if your not comfortable they might be able to tell.
ya i'm kinda a shy person at frist until i get to
know you,so i don't what to give out the wrong impessions
and being there will be alot of people there i'm thanking
it might be best to wait..

peachiegirl28's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:48 AM
follow the nike quote......"JUST DO IThappy

61sunshine's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:48 AM
Go for it. Wt better time? Everyone will be excited about Christmas that they won't settle down to doing the old stare and glare act. Besides they will be less likely to ask a lot of personal questions in front of the entire crowd.

Jtevans's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:48 AM
send them a bottle of whiskey for Christmas,let them get drunk and then go meet them

treneesiu's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:51 AM
If your shy and want an adventure , you should. But if you will have a panic attack then you shouldn't. Or maybe you and your girlfriend can have a secret code for an escape if it gets to be overwhelming. My last boyfriend and I had that last Thanksgiving and we left and gave him a break, went and got some ice, talked about what was worrying him that far and it worked out pretty well.

johncarl's photo
Thu 12/20/07 04:57 AM
i would do it:smile:

HearshotKid88's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:00 AM
This reminds me of last Christmas. I took my ex girlfriend to my grandparents house. It was weird at first then everybody was fine with it. Just do it. That's what I would do.

pennyg281's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:05 AM

Chrsitmas day is an excellent time to meet the family. Go 4 it.

Smiles2b4U's photo
Thu 12/20/07 05:14 AM
First, Make your girlfriend happy...That makes you happy! Second, Talk to her and release the fears you have with her. Third, Go, get presents, get closer, get happy!!!flowerforyou happy