cause feminism killed guys like me . that open doors n put a womans coat on. that were raised right.

Because they are too wrapped on themselves to devote time to older people( let alone singlesookig for friendship

Only if you let it.
The very small minority that whinge and carry on like idiots about about having a door opened for them aren't worth the effort anyway.
No matter where I go it seems the majority appreciate it and say thank you.

wanna find out the easy way? go for a drive with them. and just watch and observe what they do through their driving habits. its one of the most innocent yet primal ways to expose any real people. dont believe me, but it works for women too.

heres an example generous single lane t section busy round about. do they keep left if planning to go left and allow others to fit right if going right? or do they hog the whole road and just sit there for eons.

or, if theres two lanes they zip right past you clearly over the speed limit if your doing the speed limit, just to get into your lane a short distance further and indicate on you when there was no other car near or behind you to warrant it.

saw one recently where an ambo was sirening at lights, three lane merging road, driver could have turned the immediate other direction safely as there were no incoming cars but were going the opposite direction and just sat there.

not giving way to buses ambos etc etc.

Because older people are going against nature. Nature meant for people to find a mate when they were young. We looked better. Were healthier. Had more in common
The beginning of adult life. More sexual.

later in life. We aren't as attractive. May not be as healthy. More established in life. Want more from the other person.We judge them more carefully. Some people are jaded.

Why do some women on Mingle select like instead of sending a free message?

It is not difficult to find true gentlemen.only thing that is required is to trust not suspect every person you meet here

It is not difficult to find true gentlemen.only thing that is required is to trust not suspect every person you meet here

It is not difficult to find true gentlemen.only thing that is required is to trust not suspect every person you meet here

1 thing women forget, if looking for a Gentleman, they need to present themselves as a worthy LADY! someone from a bygone era, 1950's type. yes they exist, I want 1, & I only personally know of 5, 1 was my ex GF, 1 was my deceased wife, my deceased mom, my cousin, and a co-worker, she is divorced, but a narcissistic husband of 38 years ruined her and is afraid of dating & men but she kicked him out for cheating, she will not date anyone, & I am lucky to call on phone occasionally.

your speech, do you try to always talk prim & proper? or do I hear street talk unbecoming of a Lady from your mouth? a good lady will do her best to never speak bad words, if you laugh, you already are not worthy of any real gentleman a romance of a lifetime could await a true Lady, my ex was treated like a queen, until she demanded I buy her 40 year old daughter a home & give it to her. the daughter refuses to work, I refused, so I was dumped, I already bought ex a vacation home 6 or 7 years ago which she asked & has enjoyed, but its in my name, she was treated like a queen for 18+ years.

so those that want a Gentleman, are you worthy? 99.5% of women I see are not, & I dont get to know the .05% as never really needed to look until recently.

Their already taken by real women!

nope, not all. but get ignored, many times as they do not measure up to some crazy ideal standard, yeah. or get judged because of looks, or clothing, not realizing it is what is in heart and mind that makes a Gentleman, but it also proves they are not worthy of said Gentleman

reminds me of lady I talked to over 20 years ago, she had a "perfect guy" no alcohol, drugs, tobacco' home every night 30 min after work, he provided everything so she didnt have to work, but he was a street racer, so his hobby was his car, but she refused to have anything to do with, but he had before they met. they had 2 kids, he spent time with every night, and she did house work, cooked and cleaned, but she divorced him, WHY? she wanted better things in life! she was sick of wearing goodwill clothes, cooking, or occasionally fast food, she was sick of seeing money he made go into race car, although his winnings was used to help around house, she didnt want to work, but wanted to eat fancy places.

I told her I hope she winds up miserable, gets an alcoholic drunk, maybe with money, but someone that doesnt respect her, cheats on her, as at that time I was still street racing myself, so she didnt know until I cussed her out & told her off. she had no idea what she had, and threw it away over wanting "NICER" things.

my ex threw me away because I refused to get a second job and buy and give her 40 year old liberal daughter a home, so could sit on butt and play games, and refuse to work.

well you ant going to find nthing on this scam site i will tell yu that

I’m only stating this from my OWN observation.
If a man wasn’t taught as a child to respect others, look people in the eyes when speaking to them and reply yes Sir, yes Ma’am they probably won’t carry that same respect throughout their lives. If a man grew up without God and prayer he probably doesn’t have respect for others.
Many of the old school beliefs that “ Men don’t cry” or “Men don’t show emotions “ have been passed down through the ages. It takes a brave and unique man to break out of that mold and challenge themselves and their fathers to the fact that REAL MEN DO CRY and have valid emotions outside of the stereotypical uncontrollable ANGER.
It takes effort and awareness. It can be accomplished and we men are better for ourselves and the one’s we love once we have.
Guy’s like girls need to give themselves time between relationships to understand and learn from the mistakes we have made. There truly is no other way to grow and be comfortable with one’s self. It makes us better people and better for the next relationship.
There are nice and respectful men out there.
Just remember, it’s a two way street.
Russ

If u can't find a real gentleman then ur looking in the wrong places. It's even harder for a man to find a real woman.

Being a gentleman these days is seldom seen as a vertue or personal quality. Its all about looks and status these days it seems. People are not looking for a person persay, they are looking for a image, or a dream they have. They no longer look for decency,respect, kindness. Their interests are holidays, scandal, royality and celebrity. They are sheeple in my opinion, no mind of their own or charecter. They follow instead of leading their own path of life and they try to emulate others lives. I blame so called social media. It has caused more problems than enough in this life and blocked out the reality of living. Gentlemanly traits are wasted in todays world and the enviroment humanity has built for itself. Profanity is the norm the selfish im alright jack attitude sod you rules. Good luck in your search for a "true gentleman". I would not hold your breath.

yeah they all want is to go straight to WhatsApp or hangout so they can run their scams, like I'm going to hand over money to a stranger 🤣

I agree I happened to be one of them ladies and I am here. Looking for one good woman Redding California. Nice desk

If one seeks old fashioned values in another. They best be displaying old fashioned, and worth while tendencies of their own. Far too often ones definition of fair or equal. Is long outdated, or applied to others in the lineup ahead of you. Far too much I want, I need. Things like I inspire, I share, are hardly to be seen. Try and do better for yourselves huh!