I heard yesterday a renowned
physiologist talk about Valentines Day ...


Now most believe if older ...it is just a ploy on ...how much to spend...

but when younger ... the notion are if I don't get something from a BF husband... wife ...extra... we or they are not loved ... becouse what know candy flowers dinner sure all that feels good ... but does that last ... not really ... here is what she said that would be lasting ... ask the person ... what they would like to do ... but the object is you have to give your total attention to the person ... know cells if possible ... no laptops ... think u get it ... ask would you like to go for a walk and just talk or do something that both can do... that will bring you closer to them ...
then a object can...

I would guess if you ask them to marry you on that day ... would be nice ...
or for a first date is very romantic ... from experience the man or person asking is very serous about u ...


now if you have someone in your life right now or not ... what would you like that might bring you closer to them ... ok we all know about sex but that is not what I am getting at ...



unconditional attention

A slow dance with Halle Berry to Whitney Houston's song "I Will Always Love You". Would bring me closer to her but she no doubt would run the other way.

Valentine's Day was always important for both my deceased husbands and I. We always celebrated it and other days too.
I think it depends on how deep is your love and respect for your love.

need to put this in ...what I heard the other day ...

there is a site that matches your DNA with someone ... so this might change the way you look at someone ... OMG funniest thing I have heard and
u pay for this match ...


Valentines day goes on ... personally it is what ever ...
makes you comfortable ...

Valentine's Day: Another day to remind me I'm alone. Great. Thrillsville.

u could look at it that way ... or
being in the site ->forums your not alone ...

If they're not physically present, it's nowhere near the same thing.