Mutual match is crazy....maybe it's my fault for the way I feel about it. I first started searching locally, within 100 miles...but when I reached the end, I opened the thing up...18 to 40 and anywhere..and now I have this never ending span of new pics flying by my screen...I feel I'm forced to vote based on looks alone because there is just so many people, and I can't resist seeing who's next and what they look like...it's a real addiction. To my benefit, I always tell myself I'll check out what they've written later, but now I have over 100 MMs. And I still haven't figured out if New Matches are people that voted yes for you or new people or people online recently. One more thing...I have accidentally clicked no, when I meant to click yes, several times...and I always say the same thing to myself..."Yep, that was my soul mate, and I just trashed her"

LOL
Know the feeling...
I quit messing with it myself!
I figure I would have better luck in the posts out here...

Been there just stick with forums and people that have viewed you....good luck!!!

oh, and you know what else? Where do the people that you vote "maybe" go??? real mystery to me...

I believe your profile is still kicked back to the person and if they choose yes then it is still a mutual match...I think

hey sweetie

well if that's the case, I should just vote maybe on everyone...always have this fear that I'm sending someone's pic into oblivion, though

hey peachie

i'm mutual matchless

the only problem with post and that is half the people don't post you email them they don't email back and heaven for bid if you try to text they will not talk. i to am lost at what to do. but still have fun

Thats hilarious. And totally true. I'm starting to think MMs are just a "hook" to get people talking to someone quickly, so they don't give up on JSH after a couple of days.

more than a hook...I'm addicted for sure

i had one sent her email she sent me one back wanting to talk on the phone well it has been 2 day.ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i was dumped .

If that's the case I've been dumped many a time...

2 last week 1 this week wow i am having fun

Mutual match is supposed to be from your mutual picks. I have hit mostly maybe to all. I am pretty sure that they go to be match with the other person.
New matches are supposed to be in your profile search requirements...whatever you have put in your profile. Sometimes I get the same new matches forever. I want to SCREAM...he already rejected me....

I do think more people should put that they prefer someone in only a certain area. Its all just luck...Hoping that some people will be ready to go the distance for true love...

i went through and done them for days....and alot of good it did me...noone ever contacts ya...its just like eye candy for ya that u cant have

Tell me about it...I don't think I get past the 1st conversation and they're off running-hmmm maybe it could be the 2 screaming kids I usually have in the background???

i feel like a kid in a candy store and i only have .05c