Topic: Tolerance is very important along with kindness in dating
Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 01/27/20 04:44 PM
I find many divorced Men are angry and not very tolerant with women!

Speaking of person experience and conversations.


I'm interested more in a widower or never married man !


Mike6615's photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:07 PM

I find many divorced Men are angry and not very tolerant with women!

Speaking of person experience and conversations.


I'm interested more in a widower or never married man !




There are a lot of those men on Mingle. They are angry, bitter, seem to only see their side of the divorce and seem to have an anti-women attitude, despite being on a dating site. They are best left alone when discovered. Hopefully they'll just dry up and go away (or get some much-need counseling).

FredoniaDaydreamer's photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:19 PM
Edited by FredoniaDaydreamer on Mon 01/27/20 05:31 PM
Hi Toody,

I feel every man is unique, just as every woman is unique. I'm sorry you have run into a bunch of bitter men. (I'm sure there must be a few bitter women as well.)
I have met a lot of really nice divorced men. Quite a few on here......

I wish you luck in your search! waving

no photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:26 PM
Tolerance and kindness is good for everyone.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:37 PM



There are a lot of those men on Mingle. They are angry, bitter, seem to only see their side of the divorce and seem to have an anti-women attitude, despite being on a dating site. They are best left alone when discovered. Hopefully they'll just dry up and go away (or get some much-need counseling).


I have run across *many* apparent "anti-men" women in my age group, socially.
They don't want to date, or ever get married again, make with snide remarks ("all they want is a nurse or a purse")...
I refuse to be around negativity like that...

You (the genric "you) are free to feel however you choose, but I also have the right not to listen to or be around such people.

We don't like it when *men* make blanket statements about women, but apparently it is tolerated when women do it about men. sad2

Rock's photo
Mon 01/27/20 06:20 PM
There are alot of severely damaged people in
the world.

Not a gender exclusive issue.



Just be careful out there.

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 01/27/20 07:15 PM
I'm not speaking of just on mingle2! On other dating sites and in real world!


Mike6615's photo
Mon 01/27/20 07:24 PM
Edited by Mike6615 on Mon 01/27/20 07:25 PM




There are a lot of those men on Mingle. They are angry, bitter, seem to only see their side of the divorce and seem to have an anti-women attitude, despite being on a dating site. They are best left alone when discovered. Hopefully they'll just dry up and go away (or get some much-need counseling).


I have run across *many* apparent "anti-men" women in my age group, socially.
They don't want to date, or ever get married again, make with snide remarks ("all they want is a nurse or a purse")...
I refuse to be around negativity like that...

You (the genric "you) are free to feel however you choose, but I also have the right not to listen to or be around such people.

We don't like it when *men* make blanket statements about women, but apparently it is tolerated when women do it about men. sad2








You're correct, Bluegrass. I don't know why it's tolerated either.

oldkid46's photo
Mon 01/27/20 09:22 PM
As we have gotten older and had more negative experiences, we have formed a generic set of beliefs about the other gender. Many of these beliefs are negative and those are what we assume until something shows us that those beliefs don't apply to a specific person. I think most of us start out with a negative value status when we meet someone new and need to show our positive characteristics for them to even consider us.

Rock's photo
Mon 01/27/20 10:22 PM

I'm not speaking of just on mingle2! On other dating sites and in real world!




My friend, through experiences, you
are perfectly within your rights, to have
opinions, and preferences. :thumbsup: