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I find many divorced Men are angry and not very tolerant with women!
Speaking of person experience and conversations. I'm interested more in a widower or never married man ! |
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I find many divorced Men are angry and not very tolerant with women! Speaking of person experience and conversations. I'm interested more in a widower or never married man ! There are a lot of those men on Mingle. They are angry, bitter, seem to only see their side of the divorce and seem to have an anti-women attitude, despite being on a dating site. They are best left alone when discovered. Hopefully they'll just dry up and go away (or get some much-need counseling). |
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Edited by
FredoniaDaydreamer
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Mon 01/27/20 05:31 PM
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Hi Toody,
I feel every man is unique, just as every woman is unique. I'm sorry you have run into a bunch of bitter men. (I'm sure there must be a few bitter women as well.) I have met a lot of really nice divorced men. Quite a few on here...... I wish you luck in your search! |
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Tolerance and kindness is good for everyone.
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There are a lot of those men on Mingle. They are angry, bitter, seem to only see their side of the divorce and seem to have an anti-women attitude, despite being on a dating site. They are best left alone when discovered. Hopefully they'll just dry up and go away (or get some much-need counseling). I have run across *many* apparent "anti-men" women in my age group, socially. They don't want to date, or ever get married again, make with snide remarks ("all they want is a nurse or a purse")... I refuse to be around negativity like that... You (the genric "you) are free to feel however you choose, but I also have the right not to listen to or be around such people. We don't like it when *men* make blanket statements about women, but apparently it is tolerated when women do it about men. |
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There are alot of severely damaged people in
the world. Not a gender exclusive issue. Just be careful out there. |
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I'm not speaking of just on mingle2! On other dating sites and in real world!
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Edited by
Mike6615
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Mon 01/27/20 07:25 PM
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There are a lot of those men on Mingle. They are angry, bitter, seem to only see their side of the divorce and seem to have an anti-women attitude, despite being on a dating site. They are best left alone when discovered. Hopefully they'll just dry up and go away (or get some much-need counseling). I have run across *many* apparent "anti-men" women in my age group, socially. They don't want to date, or ever get married again, make with snide remarks ("all they want is a nurse or a purse")... I refuse to be around negativity like that... You (the genric "you) are free to feel however you choose, but I also have the right not to listen to or be around such people. We don't like it when *men* make blanket statements about women, but apparently it is tolerated when women do it about men. You're correct, Bluegrass. I don't know why it's tolerated either. |
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As we have gotten older and had more negative experiences, we have formed a generic set of beliefs about the other gender. Many of these beliefs are negative and those are what we assume until something shows us that those beliefs don't apply to a specific person. I think most of us start out with a negative value status when we meet someone new and need to show our positive characteristics for them to even consider us.
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I'm not speaking of just on mingle2! On other dating sites and in real world! My friend, through experiences, you are perfectly within your rights, to have opinions, and preferences. |
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