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do you tolerate people around you that only complain?
and only about trivial stuff or stuff that ultimately is b/c of their own actions... like "i never have money" but they drive around in a range rover and smoke cigs day in and day out. "i can't get ahead at work" but they are always late and never meet deadlines. do you speak up and say just shut up already? or do you say nothing and try to avoid talking to them at all costs? |
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I have a friend like that. And to be honest. its just easier to try to avoid her instead of having to deal with even more woe is me crap of me telling her to shut up.
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keep it real, tell them to shut the hell up or do something about it
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I try to gently explain why its their fault, then if they don't get it I just sit back and watch.
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